Jjun Posted September 2, 2017 Share Posted September 2, 2017 (edited) Me and my ex broke up about 3 weeks ago. I instigated it but he was 100% for it as well and ended up wanting it more than me. I did contact him after we broke up a couple of times saying I miss him and just trying to get closure. And all those times he told me he missed me too and how he thought about me but he didn't want to get back together RIGHT now because he just doesn't feel like he could. Anyways we dated for a year and in that year I met a lot of friends kind of through him. These were people who he hung with from time to time but never really made the effort to actually get to know. While I dated him I ended up becoming really good friends with a few of these people through the year. We would go out and hang out without him sometimes while we dated. So after we broke up he starts getting upset that I'm hanging with "his friends" still. So last night I was out with people and 2 of "his friends" were there. I guess he got annoyed so him and his best friend posted a story on his Snapchat with them 2 with his ex. Whom I never liked and always felt kind of insecure about (they both knew this fact). I'm 99% that he made his friend post this so I would see it and be hurt (I deleted him off everything). And the past year they spent telling me how she's a terrible person and how she's crazy/childish.. and now I see them hanging out with her.. Right now, I'm just really upset at the fact that him and his friend would do something like that deliberately to hurt me. I haven't really talked to his best friend because I felt out of respect and the guy probably didn't want to talk to me either, but we were very close while I dated my ex. I never intended to hurt him by hanging with "his friends" I was simply trying to cope and they had become people i hung with and talked to over the year. I just don't get why he is being so cruel about this all... guess I thought he cared more about me as a person. Edited September 2, 2017 by jasakido Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted September 2, 2017 Share Posted September 2, 2017 He's hurt & lashing out. He picked this EX because he knew it was the fastest / best way to hurt you. Unfriend your EXs buddy & just ignore them. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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