BF is getting jealous of a guy friend of mine for no apparent reason

[usa1ah]

Here is the thing in an nut shell.

 

Ryan asked her straight up if she has had sex with Matt. This by what she said in a post.

 

She has said in her post that her and Matt have played around sexually with one another. Toys, HJ, FJ and BJ.

 

She lied to Ryan saying that she has never had sex with Matt because they didn't screw.

 

So she misleads Ryan with her answer and OP knows this. She wouldn't be defending herself if otherwise.

 

Ryan is ok with them hanging out now because he thinks that they have never touched each other sexually.

 

OP is playing Ryan for a fool.

[GoldenR]

And now it comes out that you are dressing provacatively when you're with Matt. Smh...

 

At this point,I'm no longer advocating honesty with Ryan. Just break up with him. You clearly have a thing for Matt, whether you want to admit it or not. It's obvious. Break up with Ryan and then tell Matt you want to be with him. He will commit to you very quickly.