Children being used as a tool

[regretfollows]

Actually, I can't blame her for not wanting YOU back but it is unfair to the kids to turn them against their father. They still need you.

 

Can't blame her either. But I can't hang on to that. I have to fight for my kids and their well being. They don't deserve to be in the middle of any of this.

[minimariah]

Never forget women are the networking and manipulation experts.

 

^ is this how a loving father thinks...?

is this how he feels about his own daughters...?

 

...won either joint or sole custody by being just as brutal and manipulative as the woman.

 

aha. soooo... their ex abused the kids so they decided to abuse & confuse them some more? oh, i see.

 

Goes against male instincts...

 

male instincts do not include what you think they do.

obviously.

 

...and everything a man believes about women...

 

are you trying to tell us that a man, born and raised in America... and a man, born and raised in African tribe - believe THE SAME THINGS about women? is that what you're trying to tell us...? that there is some universal belief that ALL MEN have about women? that's interesting.

 

She's the enemy.

 

this dad is a man who is damaged by a woman thinking of him as the enemy - his ex started a war and your advice is to... open another war instead of fighting with TRUTH, TRANSPARENCY and LOVE for the children...? he should abuse & confuse the kids with hostility - JUST LIKE HIS ex - because that's what worked out for your buddies? this is getting better and better.

 

In her mind you are dead, or will be soon. You cheated. You're nothing.

 

how on Earth would you know what is on his ex's mind? why do you encourage the hostility instead of sending him to get LEGAL HELP & fight through HEALTHY WAYS? why, Jesus? why? did someone hack you...?

 

OP - stay calm. CALM. do not let strangers on the Internet fill you up with panic and hate. that is the LAST thing you need in this moment. you need legal advice - document everything. file a complaint, you're dealing with a parental alienation here. seek PROFESSIONAL HELP and advice to deal with alienation. stay respective, loving and calm. that's the key - trust me on this. you want your kids to be mentally healthy, you don't want to win on court and scar them as much as possible. they need one responsible and stable parent - so be that for them.

[minimariah]

You did that when you had an affair and betrayed their mother...

 

that's right - he betrayed their MOTHER. not THEM.

 

if you cannot keep your mouth shut and raise your children in a peaceful environment with an ex who cheated on you - you're not fit to be a parent. as simple as that. enough with the excuses for parents who abuse their own children because they can't suck it up and complain to their friends or their therapists instead their own children.

 

the affair is on him, the parental alienation is on the mother. fact.