knockout33 Posted September 10, 2017 Share Posted September 10, 2017 (edited) I have a bit of an issue. I can't stop thinking about my neighbor. He lives in the apartment right beside me and he's always on my mind. I thought about knocking his door and telling him I like him but I can't knowing that he could be into something not good. Plus knowing my history with him isn't good. So I ask myself why I like him and I can't really come up with why? Its weird and kind of confusing in a way. So I remember when he moved in I wasn't really comfortable with him beside me and I didn't like him. Then I slowly started to relax. I have seen him when he's angry so then I realize well that's probably why I wasn't comfortable with him around. I remember him lashing out at me 4 years ago for something I did, don't remember what. Then I think he started hanging around the wrong crowed and Im not sure probably still is. Im just thinking in my mind, whats my problem? I shouldn't like him since I didn't in the beginning, and he treated me badly. Just the lashing out at me for no reason. Well maybe he had a reason that didn't concern me, but ya. Then I remember him not wanting to run into me, even look at me or be around me for the longest time its like that. He only started talking to me again at the end of year 2016. Durring 2014 to 2016 he's distant and cold. But yet, I like this person and so I want to know what to do to forget about him. I know he's not the guy for me, but it's like Im thinking crazy. When he asks to borrow stuff it's like I can't say no. Im always saying yes. Edited September 10, 2017 by knockout33 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted September 10, 2017 Share Posted September 10, 2017 To me, it sounds like you're bored and a little compulsive and fixating on whatever is nearby. So the answer is to start planning your weeks socially and make plans to go out and stay busy, busy, busy and not focus on him because it sounds like a terrible situation you shouldn't want anything to do with. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
kazen Posted September 11, 2017 Share Posted September 11, 2017 It's simple. Move away. Link to post Share on other sites
Author knockout33 Posted September 11, 2017 Author Share Posted September 11, 2017 I agree with both of you. I'm in housing community housing so can't just move away like that. There's a long wait list. Nonthless, I'm on the wait list not just for that. In general I want a bigger place cause the place I have now is a batchulla. I'm trying to keep busy. Got work and see my friends and that. Trying to occupy my time. Cause ya I know it was a fairly bad situation. With him I mean. Thanks for your help, Link to post Share on other sites
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