charlie Posted July 28, 1998 Share Posted July 28, 1998 I'm 40 and have been married to my 2nd husband, age 38, for 5 years. I believe we are happy and have a healthy relationship. However, lately my husband has a thing for porno clips of asian women (some very very young). Should I be concerned? I have received some benefit from porno pics in my past. When I found the sites and the saved pics on the computer, I felt upset, a bit angry and I must admit...inadequate. Am I overreacting? Link to post Share on other sites
Ryan Posted July 31, 1998 Share Posted July 31, 1998 If the pictures are legal and he is not displaying them around your children (if you have children) then that part is cleared up. If he isn't withdrawing from the relationship or otherwise creating odd consequences for this, then I don't believe it will be a problem. If he is aware that you know, you might want to talk to him about it. I don't think it reflects on your value as a wife. After all, you've swooned over Brad Pitt a time or two eh? :c) Link to post Share on other sites
mistress Posted August 7, 1998 Share Posted August 7, 1998 Absolutely not! I also have recieved benefits in the past, but I want you to remember something... anything that bothers you is a problem. If it feels wrong to you, then it is. Your heart wouldn't be telling you it was if it wasn't. I recommend talking to your husband. Explain to him that it makes you feel inadequate.. and then suggest your own little "photo shoot". Trust me.. there is no guy alive who can resist taking sexy pictures of the woman he loves. Link to post Share on other sites
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