Boyfriend Issues-video games

[LurkerXX]

It is imperative that if this waste of flesh never has access to you again. If there is something you absolutely need to get...do not do it alone. Otherwise never ever deal with him again.

[Gaeta]

So you guys were right. He didn't care. He ended up breaking up with me after I had a depression episode. And guess how he broke up with me? He LEFT ME at a hotel in a random state that we are not from. His sister helped him leave me. He kept screaming how he "didn't give a ****" what happened to me. I am so heart broken. I know he cared for me at one point. We even talked about marriage. It's been 3 days since he left me stranded. This is so hard on me. He meant a lot to me. He hasn't called or checked on me at all. He must not even feel guilty. We were sharing a car and he left me in an unfamiliar small town with no car and the hotel was $100 a night! Someone had to drive and come get me. He has nothing to do with me anymore. I wish I would have seen this coming but I didn't. I'm in shock. I never expected him to be that cold. People have checked on me but it doesn't fix the pain and heartache.

 

This is a blessing in disguise.

 

Do not go back to him. No matter what.

 

You think this relationship was good but with time you will realize it was not.

 

A man leaving his gf of 3 years in the middle of nowhere with no mean is a bad man. Nothing less than a bad man!

 

I am sorry for your hurt. You don't see it now but the hurt will go away eventually and you'll be happier and fall in love again.

[hayhay2525]

Thank you. I appreciate it. My heart aches for him even though he has done so much to me. I don't even know where I want to live now or anything. He owes me a lot of money also that I will probably never see again which hurts me even more. He owes me about $4000 and I'm stuck paying his phone bill.

[Els]

Thank you. I appreciate it. My heart aches for him even though he has done so much to me. I don't even know where I want to live now or anything. He owes me a lot of money also that I will probably never see again which hurts me even more. He owes me about $4000 and I'm stuck paying his phone bill.

 

If you are paying his phone bill you can certainly stop doing so. Even if you can't access his account to change the payment method, you can call your bank to stop it.

 

We talked about marriage, we talked about working all of our problems out. I honestly did not see this coming. He was head over heels for me as far as I knew. He complimented me a lot.

 

This is why I don't put much stock in what a person says. Talk is cheap if it isn't backed up by actions. Next time someone tries to sweet-talk you, look and see if his actions match his words.

[guild11]

I know this situation very well, I'm afraid to tell you but the gaming problem is much bigger than you think.

You see... there more he plays there more he damages himself in every aspect of his life.

 

Its ok to play few hours a day if he doesn't have anything more important, but when he plays most of the day then the real life stuff become boring, he'll be spending more time on game achievements, its a virtual stuff yet it gives him the psychological pleasure.

 

He probably isn't even aware of the problem, today it might be destiny, tomorrow it will another game and worst of all another multiplayer game with character progression.

 

He"ll be busy building his virtual avatar rather than progressing and learning from real life.

It will also seriously damage his social life and skills, he gets used to interact behind the screen and he might have hard time interacting with real people.

 

If I was you I would hit with an ultimatum, either games or you.

[preraph]

Thank you. I appreciate it. My heart aches for him even though he has done so much to me. I don't even know where I want to live now or anything. He owes me a lot of money also that I will probably never see again which hurts me even more. He owes me about $4000 and I'm stuck paying his phone bill.

 

If you have receipts that he owes you of any kind, you can begin by sending him impersonaly written correspondence about it and keeping a copy to prove you have given him a chance to pay up. In it you should put that he has 30 days which is generous to pay up before legal action. You could even let an attorney do it for you for a portion of what is recovered. If you have no receipts or proof he owes you, you'd at least need a witness to an oral agreement to get it back in small claims court. If you don't need the money, then just blow it off. He has been using you all along, or you wouldn't be $4000 in arrears to him. I'm afraid you were his mommy taking care of his young entitled butt and didn't realize it.

 

Any man who would do this to a woman is, like Gaeta said above, a BAD BAD man! He doesn't have a love bone in his body or a protective gene. He's unnatural, an abomination of nature, a disgrace to mankind. He contributed to you spiraling downward and he was on his own downward spiral as well. There is nothing right-headed about someone who just lives in a fantasy world 24/7 and can't deal with reality.

 

It ends now. Once you decide whether to recover the money, once it's done if you have to do it, block him every way and make your new goal realizing he wasn't who you hoped he was or who he sometimes pretended to be and be glad you didn't let him run you down any longer than he did.