Camohunter73 Posted September 21, 2017 Share Posted September 21, 2017 Had an affair and came clean. Now we are separating and she says needs the separation. I am trying to fight for our relationship. We have 2 children together and we both love them very much. Our house is sold and she has bought a new one. However we are still sleeping in the same bed until the end of November and wants to do dinners and everything as normal. Doesn't really want to discuss the separation in front of the kids and we barely talk about it. She says it reminds her of the affair. Says she isn't emotionally attatched to me but her mind doesn't know what she wants? Has talked about doing a trip in January to Florida for the 4 of us. Is there a chance for us or is this all over? Link to post Share on other sites
RobMele Posted September 21, 2017 Share Posted September 21, 2017 Had an affair and came clean. Now we are separating and she says needs the separation. I am trying to fight for our relationship. We have 2 children together and we both love them very much. Our house is sold and she has bought a new one. However we are still sleeping in the same bed until the end of November and wants to do dinners and everything as normal. Doesn't really want to discuss the separation in front of the kids and we barely talk about it. She says it reminds her of the affair. Says she isn't emotionally attatched to me but her mind doesn't know what she wants? Has talked about doing a trip in January to Florida for the 4 of us. Is there a chance for us or is this all over? Ive learnt two things in cases like this. > dont over apoligize and look weak > tell her youve changed and it was a mistake > give her space whatevr you dont dont pressure her > try doing fun stuff together that you did when you fell in love Link to post Share on other sites
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