Author The Urbanyst Posted October 14, 2017 Author Share Posted October 14, 2017 Why did it end???? It would seem my experience has been in the minority here. The last gorgeous woman I dated was a total dud. She was terrible and selfish in bed. My oral lasting for over a half hour (which she loved and said as much) was met by her "I don't really do that" and a half assed couple minute BJ. Although her body was perfect, her attitude was not. She told me she stopped going to bars because she couldn't handle being hit on the entire time she was there and was guaranteed a match anytime she swiped right on Bumble. She also expected A LOT of attention. It was the reason things ended. Other very good looking women varied from good to terrible in bed but they all had one thing in common - entitlement. And why not? Their entire lives everyone (men and women) are tripping over themselves to be near them. I think most people would succumb to that. Conversely, I've had "pretty" girls bend over backwards (literally and figuratively lol) in bed and be a lot cooler to be around. They are a lot less entitled and generally have made better girlfriends and much better sex partners. When I meet a woman like this I am a lot more apt to treat her really well as opposed to some entitled hot chick who tends to make me label them as only good for sex. The real LOLer is when you meet an average chick who THINKS she gorgeous. I had a date with one and she spent most of the time telling me how her looks have made her life easier. Only thing I'm thinking is "How long ago was this?" I'd be all over a gorgeous chick who was cool and not entitled, but I haven't met any yet. The entitlement thing is true. It just shows up in different ways with different women. My relationship with the HOT girl ended because she started making more money than me and thought she was entitled to someone better. She was relaxed and low drama in our relationship but a lot of that came from having a big ego from being HOT.. feeling like it was beneath her to get upset over trivial matters. She actually used to look down on people who were very dramatic. Making more money just added to her ego and she decided "I can do better" lol. Link to post Share on other sites
Author The Urbanyst Posted October 14, 2017 Author Share Posted October 14, 2017 Lots of perks, as mentioned in enigma's post, yet these gorgeous girls give you a headache sooner or later and it's not because they're evil witches. It's just a fact of life, like many rich people become entitled or smart people arrogant. Most of us cannot handle excelling over others in a certain area without showing our not so great sides. The art is to find a gorgeous girl, with a somewhat developed personality and I'm willing to relinquish a bit of gorgeousness for p. Just a great trade off. I think a big part of dealing with people is understanding WHY they are that way. You have to understand HOT women get treated like royalty and it can warp their perception of reality. You have to understand smart people become arrogant because they feel like they are surrounded by idiots 99% of the time lol. You have to understand rich people become entitled because they believe they have "earned" it in some way and deserve "the best" because they can afford it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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