stillafool Posted October 18, 2017 Share Posted October 18, 2017 He said that one time he got hurt and now he feels scared to get close to anyone... However, I wish he would've told me that from the get go. I was the guarded one in the beginning but he got me to let my guard down. Said things like it was nice to feel so close to someone, was the one to initiate kissing, and even said I didn't need to feel guarded, etc. He said he could sense me pushing him away in the beginning, and now he pushed me away. I know I've got to accept it, but I will probably never understand why he led me to believe I could be with him when he wasn't ready in the first place. Did you also tell him what you need when you are with a man. It sounds like he did all the talking and you never expressed your desires. Can't blame him for that. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted October 18, 2017 Share Posted October 18, 2017 (edited) His main reason for ending is that he felt like he couldn't give me what I wanted / needed in terms of time. And this is an excellent reason to end a relationship. You needed more than he could give, so now you are both free to find someone who's more suited to your individual needs. Edited October 18, 2017 by basil67 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Wantluv Posted October 18, 2017 Share Posted October 18, 2017 I'm going through something like that NC.. Udb (you deserve better) Link to post Share on other sites
Author Missy Love Posted January 2, 2018 Author Share Posted January 2, 2018 Well, we connected again, my doing because I was having a hard time letting go of what happened and would go over in my mind how it could've been prevented. I needed final closure. He did communicate with me, and basically explained that he wasn't ready for a relationship and that he doesn't wish to be a part of each other's lives at all. He assured me it had nothing to do with me, it was all on him, and he hasn't dated at all since. He said that most of his experiences have been terrible, and he just realized he wanted to be alone. Then he blocked me from everything. It still doesn't make sense to me, the complete change, but I have what I need to completely move on. Link to post Share on other sites
Arieswoman Posted January 2, 2018 Share Posted January 2, 2018 Missy Love, He's told you what the score is ; He ended things, said he realized he wasn't ready for a relationship and he felt scared to be with someone. He said he couldn't give me what I deserve and there are guys out there who would treat me better and value me more. So now you owe it to yourself to respect yourself and move on. This isn't about you, and it isn't your fault. Good luck x 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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