lindya Posted August 20, 2005 Share Posted August 20, 2005 Originally posted by dr strangelove NC seems like a stalemate to me. Eventually while practicing the art of war you have to pull some move to make the other side show its hand. I think you'd be happier if you practised the art of peace. Admittedly it's a harder thing to master, though. Link to post Share on other sites
Author strangelove Posted August 20, 2005 Author Share Posted August 20, 2005 Art of peace.. walking away... I think id be better resurrecting the store right now. I remember when this place used to hopping. One things for sure I wont be getting back with her if I dont reopen the shop. So this is me folks the fallen samurai. So I guess this is how things might go from here on in. Open shop again. Eventually she contacts me.. just hope its days, maybe weeks. Not months. Then I bite my tongue, and learn to take a deep breath when she says something i dont like. I have to admit theres a certain someone on this thread that said a few things i didnt like and in person I would have kicked his chair over. Still if she wasnt my ex, and just a friend I definintely wouldnt hesitate to message her to get her talking again. I have played the NC game probably better then anyone else on here. Maybe im getting older and seems like a sesame street thing to do. Im thinking maybe im gonna go back to getting some counselling from this reverend guy.. I couldnt really stand it when he would be like "well what would god do in this situation.. " and my reply was "lets forget about god for minute how bout what should I do." He was good at helping me understand her a bit better. I kind of enjoyed the pagan.. christian lifestyle clash. Id go to talk to someone else but.. he always had a more common sense approach. Link to post Share on other sites
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