I feel like my husband is incompetent

[Cullenbohannon]

I am about to "lose my freedom" and join the ranks of "soceity" My fiancee and I read the forum together occasionally. Some stories are inspiring, some sad and some downright horrifying.

 

Currently, I make more than she does, however I do have a career that I could downsize, should she wish to expand the current household. If this comes to pass and 10 years later she writes a thread like this, I told her I would calculate the difference in wages, multiply it by the number of years and sue her, adding 3x damages.

 

Funny thing though, she appreciates that fact I would consider curtailing my rise to superstardom to raise a child, however i probably should always remember to pack the sunscreen and chips.

 

I have not yet done the 10-20, and do not mean to make light of the situation, but we pray that before it gets to the point when we are having affairs and calling people incompetent, we decide to divorce.

 

It may be time to figure out your timeline

[chinadiary]

I see two perspectives.

 

1) I know how you feel. My husband was not great and I was constantly disappointed by him.

 

2) I know I am overly critical. I tried not to be in my last relationship but I still was.

 

Urgh. How to tell what is real and what isn't.