SparklingandBroken Posted October 31, 2017 Share Posted October 31, 2017 I was out of town this weekend and DH came back early for a hockey game. When I got home we were looking at his phone to order Chinese takeout. He was apprehensive to open a new window and clicked on one that was already open to quickly type in an address but we were both laying on the couch so I could see that it was some incest porn site. I said something and he claims he was watching porn and that must have popped up. I was immediately put off and after a few minutes went into the other room where my own phone was charging. He blew up and acted extremely immaturely which made me more suspicious that he actually was looking at that site. His relationship with one of his sisters specifically is very weird. He has 2 other ones and I think nothing of it, but this one is very overbearing and manipulative. Gets mad if we go on dates or do things together that don't involve her. And a month or so ago she was sitting on his lap when they were drunk which I just think is really f*cking weird as adults. Even his friends have stated that she has a weird infatuation with her brother. I don't know what to think but I guess the 2 scenarios really creeped me out. Link to post Share on other sites
MidwestUSA Posted November 1, 2017 Share Posted November 1, 2017 I could buy the pop up explanation if not for his reaction and the subsequent details about his sister. Is this the guy you were dating, about whom you have several threads, or are you back with your ex? If the former, I'd say you had plenty of red flags regarding his behavior in other areas. What possessed you to marry him? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted November 1, 2017 Share Posted November 1, 2017 If he didn't have a whacked deal at home growing up, IMO as a guy that roleplaying porn stuff is just fantasy, a guy's version of a romance novel. It's kink. Some of my customers liked roleplaying in the BDSM area so I made stuff for them. All adults having adult fun. Yeah, they watched domination and torture roleplaying porn. Part of their adult lives. Now, if he did have incest issues at home growing up, different kettle of fish. Since this is an issue in your M, if you can't resolve it yourselves IMO engage a professional. It's fixable. Try some roleplaying that you both agree on in the bedroom. Do a little kink. It's kinda fun 2 Link to post Share on other sites
alsudduth Posted November 1, 2017 Share Posted November 1, 2017 Yeah, the only thing that concerns me about your post is his relationship with his sister. Incest Porn is pretty popular or else it wouldn't pop up everywhere. Even I've indulged in watching one or two...More out of curiosity than anything...But I've never had thoughts about my own siblings. Bottom Line, if it really is just a morbid curiosity of his, whatever - but if he's fantasizing about engaging in actual real life activities with his sibling, then I'd be concerned. Link to post Share on other sites
Maraud3r Posted November 3, 2017 Share Posted November 3, 2017 I sometimes watch stuff about stepmothers, I don't have a stepmother and neither do I want one. I wouldn't worry about what exactly he's looking at that much more than his sister possibly behaving weird. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author SparklingandBroken Posted November 5, 2017 Author Share Posted November 5, 2017 Thank you for the input, I appreciate it. Link to post Share on other sites
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