figgurinoutlife Posted August 19, 2005 Share Posted August 19, 2005 Why does my ex do this: Most of it is jokingly, but strange: She calls and makes comments about how often her and her boyfriends sexual life. She then makes a comment about how we broke up a year ago, and that when we went on vacation a year ago she had to pay for most of it. Then she makes a comment that she is talking to one of her old ex's that hated me with a passion (just as friends). Then she said I was abusive during our relationship becuase I pushed her against the wall one time. *like I said, we are friends and joke around w/each other, but she was acting a bit weirder today. Any clues on what's up? She broke up w/me, actually it was more mutual but more on her side, and I decided instead of trying to get her back (and I tried) that I would move on and I have not talked about our relationship w/her for the past 4-5 months, or have tried to get her back, but just strictly had friendship with her. I even did NC for 2 months. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted August 19, 2005 Share Posted August 19, 2005 Sounds to me like she is trying to make you jealous.. If you are really "Just Friends " with each other then talk to her about it and tell her to keep the idle chit chat about her boyfriend and their sex life to herself.. If you can't be "Just Friends" or if either of you has feelings for the other .. then you need to do NC and forget about her... Link to post Share on other sites
bhsunny21 Posted August 19, 2005 Share Posted August 19, 2005 I agree with Art_Critic on this one. It seems she is trying to make you feel bad on purpose. Maybe she is feeling bad about herself and thinks making you feel bad will help. I know that I like to get the last word in on things (even if it is a mean blow) because it makes me feel better. But, in all actuality, in the end I still feel just as bad because it showed my lack of character. I would tell her to stop what she is saying. Maybe it will make her realize that she is actually doing more harm than good. If it continues, move on. Why have 'friends' like that when there are plenty of enemies out there? Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
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