Meeting Ex after a month

[loveyougirrl]

Me and my ex-gf broke up a month ago.

 

For the first 14 days, she totally ignored me and all my attempts at reconciling went waste. I then went NC and it's only after I contacted her again to ask her if she was ready to talk, did she suggest coffee.

 

After that she told me we should also swap our stuff that we left at each other's place. And then she said we could also go to our favorite bar too.

 

I still care for her, so I'm going to know what's in her mind.

 

Tips anyone?

[No_Go]

Are you ok to be FWB with her? Because if you meet, hang out etc thar IS going to happen. Every relationship that I had finished that way: a bit of low/no contact, semi reconciliation mainly involving sex and sappy conversations for few months, then we rediscovered why we broke up at first place and parted ways.

 

If you go for it, don’t think of it as reconciliation but normal, natural decoupling process. The only reason this is not popular is people tend not to say it out loud.

 

Me and my ex-gf broke up a month ago.

 

For the first 14 days, she totally ignored me and all my attempts at reconciling went waste. I then went NC and it's only after I contacted her again to ask her if she was ready to talk, did she suggest coffee.

 

After that she told me we should also swap our stuff that we left at each other's place. And then she said we could also go to our favorite bar too.

 

I still care for her, so I'm going to know what's in her mind.

 

Tips anyone?

[bluecastle]

My advice is know beforehand where you stand and what you want. And if you just don't know—that's fine, too. See where she is, how you feel, and go from there.

[d0nnivain]

Do not go to your favorite bar. You don't need the memories or the booze.

 

She wants to meet to swap stuff. That means she is well & truly done If you can't handle that, cancel the meet & mail each other the stuff or have 3rd parties exchange it for you.