Somedude99 Posted November 26, 2017 Share Posted November 26, 2017 I recently bumped in my ex after around a month of no contact. She had often reached out to me during that time, but I either ignored or gave vague responses. I ended up bumping into her randomly one day and stay calm and cool, not being to forward at all. She however seemed really happy and touchy. She mentioned that we should go clubbing like we used to, but was busy the following weekend. I didn't really set anything up as to remain cool and not too anxious. The conversation went great with a lot of positivity and laughter. I'm a bit stuck now though, after we met I wasn't sure whether I should text, instead waiting for her to do so to gauge whether she really is interested. It's been two days and I'm wondering if I should reach out or continue to wait it out. Any advice on this? Has the messaging window closed? Should I try to set a meet up sometime? Link to post Share on other sites
Art Vandelay Posted November 26, 2017 Share Posted November 26, 2017 That depends, do you want her back? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Somedude99 Posted November 27, 2017 Author Share Posted November 27, 2017 That depends, do you want her back? I kinda do, I did miss her, but I'm unsure as to whether she may be dating someone else at the moment. I'm not one to pry so i figured her reaching out might say she still has some interest and is possibly still single. I started no contact because it felt like she wanted me as a friend, but I wasn't for that at all. She seemed a lot more flirtier this time, but yea still havent recieved a text yet. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted November 27, 2017 Share Posted November 27, 2017 I suspect her statements were just things people say & she didn't mean them. You want her back. The only way that will happen is if you reach out. Since she hasn't reached out, she may have no interest in reconciliation. If you try & she says no, you have to accept that. Will it put you back to the painful place immediately after the break up? Have all the issues that broke you apart been resolved? If they haven't even been addressed, there is no sense in even trying. It will be more of the same -- a relationship that doesn't work. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Somedude99 Posted November 27, 2017 Author Share Posted November 27, 2017 I suspect her statements were just things people say & she didn't mean them. You want her back. The only way that will happen is if you reach out. Since she hasn't reached out, she may have no interest in reconciliation. If you try & she says no, you have to accept that. Will it put you back to the painful place immediately after the break up? Have all the issues that broke you apart been resolved? If they haven't even been addressed, there is no sense in even trying. It will be more of the same -- a relationship that doesn't work. Makes sense, I mean our relationship isn't that bad, we always have a good time whenever we're together. I feel I should reach out, but not sure if it's too late. To be honest there is still some attraction so I want to see if a casual relationship is atleast still possible. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Somedude99 Posted November 27, 2017 Author Share Posted November 27, 2017 I also feel that she's always been the one reaching put during no contact, shes a bit more reluctant now. Link to post Share on other sites
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