Mabu8128 Posted November 28, 2017 Share Posted November 28, 2017 Long story short is we met online and talked for about 4 weeks, in this time our main scource of communication was phone calls and snapchat. I know that in snapchat you always give your best angle but when i told her on the phone that I have gained a bit of wait she always said she did not care and she liked it (again she is only going of the snaps I gave with the good angles). When we met things got very sexual and from what i could tell she was into me (kissing et etc). 3 days after this she told me thing were not going to workout as she felt we had nothing in common and our conversations are forced and that she did not know if she was attracted to me. Her words were i dont think im physically in it anymore I dont know if this is my insecurity that is taking over or she really was attracted to me and just no chemistry. All I know is all I can think about is that if I had just gotten into better shape she would have stayed or been attracted to me Please this is killing me on the inside any thoughts would really help Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted November 28, 2017 Share Posted November 28, 2017 (edited) I'm sure your weight is a factor in how you see yourself. If it bothers you & makes you insecure those insecurities manifest in certain ways. Even people who can see past the weight often can't see past the insecurities. Fact is confidence is sexy, no matter what size a person is. Take her at her word . . . no chemistry. If she met you & was kissing you at first your size is not the issue. If your weight had been the problem, there would have been no kissing. Since the way you look bothers you, change it. Hit the gym. The confidence you gain from regular work outs will help make you more attractive on the inside. If this is the same person from your other recent threads, she seems kind. That is small consolation while you are hurting but I don't get the sense that she is so superficial as to dump you over weight. I really think for some reason she just wasn't feeling it. Edited November 28, 2017 by d0nnivain Link to post Share on other sites
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