Very Confused

[poopc]

If anyone read my marriage on the rocks post you know that I had a lot of issues with my husband. Well he went and filed for divorce really quickly. I told him I didnt want to be with him so I guess he took that as a one way ticket to go to the lawyer.

 

I was okay with this until today and I begin to think that is not over. I want to know if people think that I am crazy. I have this weird feeling inside that he will go and get the help he needs and figure out how he treated me but on the other hand I look at the reality of it and know that most likely that will never happen. I just want to know that I am not crazy.

 

Also we have a car that is in his and his mom's name and she had him put in the divorce papers to have me pay it off or loose it. The way we got that car is for me to trade in a car in my name so does anyone know if i should get anything out of this deal. I am not getting anything from the divorce at all. Not the house, nothing.

 

If anyone can help me with this please let me know.

[Devildog]

The best course of action I can offer you is to get your own lawyer. All marital assests should be divided fairly and equitably. Unless he owned the house before you were married, and he can prove that he and he alone made all the payments on the house, you are entitled to half the equity.

 

And don't hold your breath on him ever getting help with figuring out what is wrong with him. They don't. That would involve them admitting to some degree of guilt in the termination of the marriage, and they just want to lay all the blame on you.