I was a rebound

[tomboi]

Soo I just started College in August, I by no means wanted to get romantically involved with anyone after my previous break up, (I got cheated on took her back , she lied to me a lot ,then broke up before prom and hooked up with another guy) after that I went into depression I had to take medication.

 

Coming back to the topic , I made a few friends but later found out most of them only hung out with me because I was cool and could easy make friends with a lot of people but now they all have seemed to drifted apart I spend most of my nights watching sad movies and listening to my fravourite songs again and again.

 

When College started I made a hot female friend which I don't usually make , but I ignored her she started to get clingy later she broke up with her boyfriend of 2 years and 3 weeks later she tells me she likes me , I tell her I don't , she kept insisting on giving her a chance , so a week later in august we went for movies , we dated for a month which was amazing but then later on she started ignoring me and then I confronted her she told me she needs a break and things will come back to normal, she told me she doesn't know how long the break will last so after 2 days of thinking that I already went through **** last year , so I just broke up with her and started hanging out with other females to get her off my mind ,I blocked her from everywhere for a month then her friends told me just be friends with her , I agreed but she treats me like a stranger. Before our relationship started , the guy who introduced us was very jealous that he ever did that, he bitched about me a lot to her. She realized he is a peice of **** and now she hangs out with him all the time like they are together posting photos and stuff. This is why I hate myself I literally take months to be interested in someone and that someone just leaves and I am there with all my feelings buried in me , I break down almost every night thinking if only I had rejected her the first time I'd be better off now. I just can't seem to move on nothing works and I am in the middle of my finals right now. ? I can't cope up with the stress of knowing she used me as a rebound. This is my 3th totally **** failed relationship. help me.

[ExpatInItaly]

I am sorry this happened, and I understand why you're disappointed, but your picker is broken.

 

Please use this as a lesson to not pursue anything with a girl fresh out of a relationship. It is almost always a very risky move, despite her insistence that you give it a shot.

 

Stay single for a bit now. When you're feeling healed, then attempt dating again. Go for a girl who doesn't come with recent break-up baggage.