Does moving on mean you can never ever have feelings for that person ever again?

[SevenCity]

Do we really have to explain this?

 

I was married 15 years with my ex-h and we have a daughter together. Even though our marriage ended in divorce it doesn't change the fact I have spend a huge chunk of my life with this man and he participated directly and indirectly into shaping the woman I am today. After our divorce I was capable of separating the good from the bad. I discarded the bad and built on the good, that's what allowed us to continue parenting our daughter with respect. If you do not cry the death of the father (or mother) of your child than you are failing to understand some great principals of life.

 

As for the other men that shared my life I would mourn them as well. The difference is they are NOT people on the news, they are men at some point in my life I was in love with, they're men I share unique memories with, and all participated in my happiness at some point in my life. I have learn about myself and about life with all of them...

 

Now I am talking about exs that have had a significant investment in my life, to me a man I dated 4 months is not an ex.

 

Co parenting with an ex is hardly the same as dating someone for many years and never seeing or hearing from them again. Regardless how strong your feelings were.

 

And understand, I’m not wishing death on them (well not all of them lol). When I say I don’t care I mean just that - I don’t care.

 

These were women I was devistated over at one point. Thankfully the brain has a way of ultimately erasing them.