Are regularly horny people not cut for relationships material?

[Fair]

This is funny. A man just told me the other day that he was not looking for a woman with a high sex drive to date because those types cheat. OMG!!! This will be the same man complaining in 3 years how his gf is never interested in sex. Women just can't win.

 

I wouldn't completely disregard this. Perhaps for him, he's always found this to be true. We all experience different things in life.

 

For example when I was younger I was the target of a workplace mobbing. It was so horrible and things I experienced so off the wall insane I don't often talk about it because it's hard for many people to believe me. Some never will. But it happened, none the less, and it's no less true because there are doubters.

 

Some people have to experience things first hand, but most of the time people say things like that because it's true or at least was true for them. We must all try not to judge.

[RedBaron2765]

Had a discussion with a friend, about the fact that if the sex is too great, it's a hint that a person will not be loyal, and cheat.

 

To elaborate : a person who has a high sex drive will never be satisfied with just "one" regular partner, even if the sexual chemistry is awesome between you too. They'll need the thrill, validation, and excitation, from multiplying sexual partners.

 

I speak from personal experience here, as my most memorable girlfriend sexwise was also the most prone to flirting, and without going into details, a serial cheater, and not just with me.

 

What do you think about that ?

 

I have one example that's actually the opposite. Wife has a very close friend who has a very high sex drive (early 40's, decent looking), and been married for between 15-20 years. From what I understand, she'd have her husband wake her up every day so that they could hit it before they went to work. Note that she's the horn dog (not that he ever turned it down). Long story short, he ended up cheating on her, and while they're back together, my wife says that they haven't had sex in almost a year. She wasn't looking to get it from anyone else, but for some reason he was. Maybe it got stale for him, or there were other issues, but he could never claim he wasn't getting any.

 

All I'll say is that he'll never find anyone as good as her (and I don't mean just with sex - she's a good person with her head screwed on just right). Needless to say, he's not the brightest bulb in the box. If I was married to a good woman with a sex drive like her, I'd sure as hell never leave.