Confused >.<

[Jimmytwoshoes]

Hello people,

 

Lately I've been really frustrated and confused. Getting girls to talk on the phone would always be a problem for me, but now it isn't. In the beginning of this year, conversations would be great with random girls. However, it seems like I have to force myself to talk to these girls. The conversations are simply boring, but I know these girls are actually great. It seems like I lead a conversation and she would simply replies, but eventually there's nothing to talk about.

 

I know for a fact that most girls love to talk. I'm having trouble having girls to open up to me. I want them to talk about themselves because it pisses me off when they don't. Why do girls do that? Am I not interesting? Am I boring? Is she boring? How do I break rapport? These are the questions that are running through my mind and I'm tired of it. I basically force myself to talk to these girls when I don't really feel like it sometimes. Usually me, a girl, and a buddy have a three way conversation and those conversations go very well. The girls seem very interesting, but when it's a one on one conversation with that same girl, it's just very boring. I am a very talkative person, but I just don't feel like talking to them. Why is that? Sometimes I don't want to talk, but I know want to talk to girls. I'm very confused. I'd appreciate any input from you guys. Thank you.