Ben Posted July 6, 1999 Share Posted July 6, 1999 ok, there is this girl that I use to go out with. We broke up and didn't see each other for about two years. I just finally started to talk to her again and I am letting her know that I still have feelings for her and that I want to go back out with her but she is intrested in another man one that she has been holding onto for a month now. He is 10 years older than her and she likes older men. I am not sure what to do. Link to post Share on other sites
bethbonnie Posted July 17, 1999 Share Posted July 17, 1999 ok, there is this girl that I use to go out with. We broke up and didn't see each other for about two years. I just finally started to talk to her again and I am letting her know that I still have feelings for her and that I want to go back out with her but she is intrested in another man one that she has been holding onto for a month now. He is 10 years older than her and she likes older men. I am not sure what to do. Im sure there are many other young women of you own age who you are able to establish friendships with. At best, if this girl is comfortable enough with being a 'friend' toward you, and you feel to write and ask her to know that if she needs a friend, your always there to talk to (and thats all..) then go ahead and WRITE to her. If she has choosen to be in her current relationship with this man, the leave it alone. Always remember that you would not like it if someone tried to place their expectations upon you of whom you should or should not date. If for any reason the relationship she is in does not continue, and you have remained friends, then perhaps things can be different for you and her in the future ,,, best wishes from bethbonnie Link to post Share on other sites
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