usa1ah Posted January 2, 2018 Share Posted January 2, 2018 I believe that he has turned a blind eye to it for so long that his wife thought he was fine with it. It’s not like he had not know she was off drunk for hours at a time with another man or two. Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted January 2, 2018 Share Posted January 2, 2018 He doesn't want to know the truth. So here we could have 99 people telling him they found out they were right and one saying they were wrong and he would go merrily on his way secure in the knowledge it is highly unlikely his wife is cheating on him... I get it though, better to live in blissful ignorance than to have to face the ugly truth, blow up his world, get a costly divorce, the kids would find out and he spends years in humiliation and misery... Link to post Share on other sites
Confused48 Posted January 3, 2018 Share Posted January 3, 2018 He doesn't want to know the truth. So here we could have 99 people telling him they found out they were right and one saying they were wrong and he would go merrily on his way secure in the knowledge it is highly unlikely his wife is cheating on him... I get it though, better to live in blissful ignorance than to have to face the ugly truth, blow up his world, get a costly divorce, the kids would find out and he spends years in humiliation and misery... Costly divorce, yes. Check. But you lost me at, years in humiliation and misery. I think he is in for years of humiliation and misery if he doesn't pony up for the costly divorce. If he pays the price for a divorce, he avoids modeling dysfunction to his children and gets a new life with no contact with the person who wants to humiliate him and make him miserable. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Maraud3r Posted January 9, 2018 Share Posted January 9, 2018 (edited) He doesn't want to know the truth. Pretty much this. As harsh as this sounds, he's frankly speaking a doormat. He is wholly and absolutely aware of what is going on even if it took this long for him to realize it. He could remember her BRINGING HOME A GODDAMN GUY INTO THEIR HOUSE when she had her party phase minus him. Include the abortion when they weren't having sex and there is no way he doesn't realize what is going on and has been for a long time. But as long as he doesn't admit it, it's all good. His "friend" isn't plowing his wife behind his back with everyone around them aware of it. People aren't laughing and pointing fingers when he turns his back. It hasn't gotten so bad that others feel the need to tell him and then he laughs it up with his wife and the guy who just slept with her when they come back while missing that they're not laughing with but about him. his children Yeaaaah, about that. I kinda don't see him being the father to be honest. If he goes for the divorce (which he wont, no chance of him suddenly growing a spine) he really should get a paternity test. I bet the results would be telling. Heck he could get one to finally have definitive proof of what he knew all along. Edited January 9, 2018 by Maraud3r Link to post Share on other sites
William Posted January 9, 2018 Share Posted January 9, 2018 The funny part, or perhaps sad part, is that people here have been posting to a blank wall for almost a year, considering the thread starter hasn't been here since March 2017 and hasn't posted since February 2017. However, topical insight and advice are always valued here at LoveShack.org so we'll preserve that and hope members will offer their considerable knowledge and heartfelt advice in our other threads of discussion. Thanks! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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