Skeered Posted August 23, 2005 Share Posted August 23, 2005 UGHHHHHHHHH ex's.....sorry I needed to vent because I think I'm going to start driving my family and BF nuts with all the talk about my XH that can't seem to ever take care of his responsibilities.. I just got an email from my power company that they want to shut off my power as of the end of this month because when my ex lived in our old house he didn't pay the final bill and I had left the service in my name (I know hindsight is 20/20 and that was really dumb, but he had no job when I left and I couldn't have my daughter going to a house with no power when she visited him) so now I'm the only one with existing service with this company so they rolled the debt over to me...my ex says he's going to pay for it in installments so now I get to pay for it and hope that one day he'll take care of paying me back...this man doesn't pay me child support and if he does it's such a small amount it doesn't provide anything of substance for my daughter. He's more concerned with stereo equipment, cell phones, his motorcycle etc. heck he lives with his parents because he can't take the initiative to buckle down and pay for his own place. I'm just tired of watching him buy more toys and not take care of what's really important... OK end of rant...lol thanks... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Skeered Posted August 23, 2005 Author Share Posted August 23, 2005 oh man now he calls me and complains that he has too many bills to pay and he's tired of not having a life...he lives with his parents, pays no rent, no car payments, no electric or anything the only thing he pays is his school loan and his cell bill...UGHHHHHHHHHHHHHH...i was thinking lets see I pay all my living expenses in my place and even have my boyfried who just moved here from FL living with me..(who's lookin for work but hasn't found anything yet, only been here a couple weeks however) I pay for everything for my daughter and he's complaining..oh yeah did I mention I have no car, no nothing left after leaving him because he literally pushed us into the financial gutter by not keeping a job... OMG...........I'm going to scream.... end of 2nd rant...lol Link to post Share on other sites
Lil Honey Posted August 23, 2005 Share Posted August 23, 2005 Skeered: It sounds like a lil trip on Reality Lane is in order for your ex. I don't know if this is a good idea, since I don't have issues with my ex . . . yet . . . but I would be tempted to guessimate (if you don't have actual numbers) the cost of his big boy toys. List them, then hand them to him. Tell him to sell them in order to pay for his debts. Also mention going back to court to motivate him to make him responsible. LH Link to post Share on other sites
Author Skeered Posted August 23, 2005 Author Share Posted August 23, 2005 Thanks Lil...ahhh the story is long and ugly..unfortunately I'm stuck dealing with him being an idiot for now...but in a couple more months I'm going to let him know exactly where a bear sh**s and it's not in my backyard...lol Link to post Share on other sites
New_Wife Posted August 23, 2005 Share Posted August 23, 2005 So you were my exH's second wife? I'd wondered who he victimized next. Guess I should've tattooed that warning label on his head afterall. Sorry you're going through this. Some men really ought to be force neutered. (No offense to those who are real men and live up to their honors/responsibilites) Link to post Share on other sites
Mz. Pixie Posted August 23, 2005 Share Posted August 23, 2005 I'm sorry you're having a hard time, I can relate! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Skeered Posted August 23, 2005 Author Share Posted August 23, 2005 Thanks ladies for the support it is really helping me through this day...my self esteem is shot to hell anymore...I feel like I start to get ahead and something else slams me back down...it's like a constant reminder of what a dumb choice I made years ago...reminding me I'll never be rid of the problems this man has placed in my life and he is just bouncing through life complaining how everyone is crappin on him... Anyway thanks again... Link to post Share on other sites
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