eddpad Posted August 23, 2005 Share Posted August 23, 2005 My ex and I have been apart for 3 months now and in that window of time she has done everything from started dirnking and smoking heavily, has run away from home and is now rooming with her friends from work, who are the same people she had been around with a couple of weeks before our breakup. Today I ran into two emails her sister had sent her and both were dealing with drugs. One of the lines read "I really want to believe that you won't or touch that stuff again." Stuff being cocaine. My ex is going through the same **** her sister went through. Her sister cheated on her bf and eventually broke up with him because she wanted to be free and not ina relationship. She got into the cocaine thing for a while too. I thought maybe my ex would be smart enough to use her sister as an example but I guess not. Why the hell doe people do this? It's like the Britney Spears syndrome, they're good, kind, caring people one minute, and then the next they feel they can lift a middle finger to everyone else and do all this bad ****. She's on a high right now and I know eventually she's gonna come down REAL hard. I don't want her to get hurt but I know I can't intervene because she simply won't listen, she won't even take her sister's calls. Anyone had any experiences liek this before. And why o hy would people give up something good and safe to do this kind of ****? Girls are REALLY starting to confuse me, no offense... Link to post Share on other sites
New_Wife Posted August 23, 2005 Share Posted August 23, 2005 Drug Addiction can be a family tradition. It is powerful, destructive and conniving. She is your ex for a reason. Move on. Sorry, it's clear that you still care about her best interests and welfare - but if she doesn't, there's not a thing you can do. Not all girls are this way. Just like not all guys are any certain way. Link to post Share on other sites
Rocko Posted August 24, 2005 Share Posted August 24, 2005 Whatever it was that started all this, I'm sure that it was not related to you in any way. She's changed for the worse, and I hope you can see this. I also hope you're strong enough now to know that you do not want a girl like this. Move on, you'll find better. Link to post Share on other sites
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