shyguy009 Posted August 24, 2005 Share Posted August 24, 2005 Alright i dont know if any of you have read my other post, but today in class i sat at this girls table. i kept the girl i wanted to talk to company while the rest of the class was cooking. Its a cooking class and she was wearing sandals she couldnt cook with out shoes. So instead she had to stay and set the tables. I asked her if she needed help and she said yea. I helped her and we started talking about past experinces in 9thgrade. About teachers and school. Then we talked about each other and were she use to live. (alaska) At times there was nothing quietness but then we just started talking again. After that the rest of the class came back from cooking (chicken parmisean). Then we stop talking to each other. Then the table started talking about cellphones My progress so far: 2day ago :So far just 2 days ago we said high to each other and talked for like 30seconds the most. Today: We talked for at least 1hr and a half. Cooking class is a block class which im happy with i get to spend alot of time with her, when she not busy. i was wondering what i should do next? My goal is to reach a stable friend ship with her and from there see what happens. Link to post Share on other sites
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JS17 Posted August 24, 2005 Share Posted August 24, 2005 Is this the girl that you had trouble talking to...that you were mean to in the 9th grade? What is your interest in this girl? Are you looking for friendship or to date her? Link to post Share on other sites
Author shyguy009 Posted August 24, 2005 Author Share Posted August 24, 2005 yes it is, Im looking to date her but i dont want to start so fast. I want it to go slow and start a freindship with her and if it goes good,i want to eventualy date her.. If it doesnt Ill still be her friend today we didnt talk much we were both busy in the kitchen. i know that she is going to a concert tommarow night and im thinking about going as well. I was wondering if I should ask the one of her freinds if they know if she is seeing anyone? so i know im not waisting my time or should i ask her in person? Link to post Share on other sites
JS17 Posted August 24, 2005 Share Posted August 24, 2005 IMO, I don't think that you should try to be her friend first if you know that you're interested in more. If you ask her in person if she is seeing anyone she'll probably get the hint that you're asking for a reason. If she says no then you can ask her out. It's pretty simple Link to post Share on other sites
Dean3922 Posted August 24, 2005 Share Posted August 24, 2005 If you spend alot of time being her friend and she says no when you ask for a date you are going to be upset. You need to ask her out now and you can find out about her while you date. You DO NOT need to be friends before you date. It just messes up the friendship if she see's you as a friend and you want more. You will not want to just be her friend if you have romantic interests in her. Just go up to her and ask her for a date. It really isn't hard. If you hang with her she is going to see you as a friend. Tell her your intentions. There is no harm in letting a girl know you like her romantically. They really do like guys that tell them they are attractive. Link to post Share on other sites
Author shyguy009 Posted August 25, 2005 Author Share Posted August 25, 2005 Alright cool, now only if i have the guts to do that lol. Link to post Share on other sites
JS17 Posted August 25, 2005 Share Posted August 25, 2005 You can do it. Think of it as your LS homework. You should read this thread http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?threadid=69206 Link to post Share on other sites
Author shyguy009 Posted August 26, 2005 Author Share Posted August 26, 2005 LS homework? Ever since we had that long talk 2 day ago. i still havent talked to her or had the chance to. she is always busy and i dont think it would be the appropirate time to ask her. I feel so bad when i leave the class with out talking to her 1on1 that is. Im so excited when i get to school all i can think about is her and 2nd period class. Then when i dont make any progress i fell bad and dont want to leave school. sorry i think im making this harder than it realy is, but i just dont get it Link to post Share on other sites
niceties55 Posted August 26, 2005 Share Posted August 26, 2005 BTW LS=Love Shack Homework anyway...........if you have her phone number call her. (read my other posts) i have a similar problem to yours Link to post Share on other sites
Author shyguy009 Posted August 26, 2005 Author Share Posted August 26, 2005 i dont Link to post Share on other sites
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