Craig Posted August 25, 2005 Share Posted August 25, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale Who cares what she is doing as long as she wants you! It isn't about what she is doing, it is all about what "I" want. It's all about me, not her. Link to post Share on other sites
elijahBailey Posted August 25, 2005 Share Posted August 25, 2005 Originally posted by Craig swinging from the chandelier, huh??? I've never done that one before Let us know how it goes when you get the chance to perform that stunt Link to post Share on other sites
JS17 Posted August 25, 2005 Share Posted August 25, 2005 Originally posted by Craig I fully intend to have the most incredible, swinging from the chandelier, walls dripping with moisture, head board banging, mind numbing, skin chafing, can't walk after it, kind of intense sex again but not while I am married or married and separated. call me when your divorce is final Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted August 25, 2005 Share Posted August 25, 2005 Originally posted by JS17 call me when your divorce is final :lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
Craig Posted August 25, 2005 Share Posted August 25, 2005 Originally posted by ThumbingMyWay I know...you have a conscience like me.... You're projecting. I don't think of it as a conscience, it is something that I just would not do. Link to post Share on other sites
elijahBailey Posted August 25, 2005 Share Posted August 25, 2005 Originally posted by JS17 call me when your divorce is final yeah JS17, I think this Craig's a keeper. I just got this funny feeling he's filthy rich.... what with all the women trying to get a piece of him. It's either that or he's one good-lookin' guy Link to post Share on other sites
JS17 Posted August 25, 2005 Share Posted August 25, 2005 Originally posted by elijahBailey yeah JS17, I think this Craig's a keeper. I just got this funny feeling he's filthy rich.... what with all the women trying to get a piece of him. It's either that or he's one good-lookin' guy forget money and looks....."the most incredible, swinging from the chandelier, walls dripping with moisture, head board banging, mind numbing, skin chafing, can't walk after it, kind of intense sex"is what i'm after! Link to post Share on other sites
Craig Posted August 25, 2005 Share Posted August 25, 2005 Originally posted by elijahBailey huh??? I've never done that one before Let us know how it goes when you get the chance to perform that stunt Gather round and I'll tell you some stories that will make strong men run for the kleenex and women slide off their chairs. Originally posted by JS17 call me when your divorce is final Done! 867-5309 and it Jenny isn't it? Link to post Share on other sites
Outcast Posted August 25, 2005 Share Posted August 25, 2005 I've had more than my fair share of sex Gather round and I'll tell you some stories that will make strong men run for the kleenex and women slide off their chairs By all means do! Link to post Share on other sites
ThumbingMyWay Posted August 25, 2005 Share Posted August 25, 2005 call it.... Originally posted by Craig Some stories that will make strong men run for the kleenex and women slide off their chairs. Link to post Share on other sites
Craig Posted August 25, 2005 Share Posted August 25, 2005 Originally posted by elijahBailey yeah JS17, I think this Craig's a keeper. I just got this funny feeling he's filthy rich.... what with all the women trying to get a piece of him. It's either that or he's one good-lookin' guy I guess that based on numbers I make more than most but less than some, I think I'm about a 7/10 but women tell me I'm "a very good looking guy." I think they are being kind. I do know how to talk to a woman and all the other things but I have my quirks too. I am definitely NOT perfect and for my next relationship I want a woman that is NOT perfect either--just herself and not afraid to be vulnerable and be herself with me. I know it's a lot to ask. Link to post Share on other sites
Craig Posted August 25, 2005 Share Posted August 25, 2005 Originally posted by Outcast By all means do! Start a new thread and just maybe... Link to post Share on other sites
Mz. Pixie Posted August 25, 2005 Share Posted August 25, 2005 "That's why we both have our top 5 celeb list that gives permission giving the opportunity for each of us so long as they are on the list!" Hilarious! I do that too! But I really wouldn't actually do it! Craig, what you've been through is something that most men haven't and you've learned alot about yourself doing the process. You rock! I think most of you guys on here are wonderful!!! Link to post Share on other sites
MySugaree Posted August 26, 2005 Share Posted August 26, 2005 If you were in a perfect, loving relationship and you were offered sex with a beautiful woman, with a guarantee that your partner would never find out, would you? As of now, 17 self-reported males responded to this hypo: 14 (82.4%) answered No; just 3 (17.6%) answered Yes. Infidelity rates among US married men, on the other hand, approach 50%. See, Atwood & Schwartz, 2002 - Journal of Couple & Relationship Therapy. Why the significant difference? The sample size is small, but interesting. One would expect to see higher "yes" numbers based on national statistics. Either more moral men flock to relationship public message boards as opposed to their bad boy brethren (alpha and I being exceptions) or the "no" respondents are communicating idealized representations of themselves in what is a female-dominated board. In other words, that's what they believe the ladies want to hear. Morality as a seduction tool. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted August 26, 2005 Share Posted August 26, 2005 Originally posted by MySugaree Infidelity rates among US married men, on the other hand, approach 50%. its probably around the same rate for women but they get busted less so it looks like they cheat less... (alpha and I being exceptions) Link to post Share on other sites
thegoodhubbie Posted August 26, 2005 Share Posted August 26, 2005 Originally posted by MySugaree Either more moral men flock to relationship public message boards as opposed to their bad boy brethren Would seem to be the case as the "bad boys" are probably out cheating on their significant others instead of learning about themselves and their relationships! or the "no" respondents are communicating idealized representations of themselves in what is a female-dominated board. In other words, that's what they believe the ladies want to hear. Don't care if it is what they want to hear or not. Morality as a seduction tool. Wish I had thought of this when I was single!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Moose Posted August 26, 2005 Share Posted August 26, 2005 or the "no" respondents are communicating idealized representations of themselves in what is a female-dominated board. In other words, that's what they believe the ladies want to hear. That doesn't make any sense......what in the world to you think we are trying to say here anyway???? We're testifying that we wouldn't cheat on our wives or significant others under any circumstances, to pick up women on a public board? COME ON, You're dreaming. Link to post Share on other sites
thegoodhubbie Posted August 26, 2005 Share Posted August 26, 2005 Originally posted by Moose That doesn't make any sense......what in the world to you think we are trying to say here anyway???? We're testifying that we wouldn't cheat on our wives or significant others under any circumstances, to pick up women on a public board? COME ON, You're dreaming. Hadn't thought of it that way, but I would not doubt that there are guys on public boards that try just that. While it may seem out of the realm of probability for guys like you and me, it is certainly possible. Link to post Share on other sites
Craig Posted August 26, 2005 Share Posted August 26, 2005 Originally posted by MySugaree As of now, 17 self-reported males responded to this hypo: 14 (82.4%) answered No; just 3 (17.6%) answered Yes. Infidelity rates among US married men, on the other hand, approach 50%. See, Atwood & Schwartz, 2002 - Journal of Couple & Relationship Therapy. Why the significant difference? Uh, because LS attracts men that tend to give a damn about their relationships? LS is not a representative sample of the population referred to in Atwood & Swartz? The cheaters are too busy maintaining their webs of deceit to have time for LS? Link to post Share on other sites
elijahBailey Posted August 26, 2005 Share Posted August 26, 2005 Originally posted by MySugaree Infidelity rates among US married men, on the other hand, approach 50%. See, Atwood & Schwartz, 2002 - Journal of Couple & Relationship Therapy. Why the significant difference? I would take the stats with a pinch of salt. I've heard stats like 34%(men) / 17%(women) (can't remember the exact figures) and didn't someone mention in one of the other threads about a CNN documentary that says 70% of men cheated? I would seriously doubt the figures. If you got polled about whether you ever cheated, would you admit it? I dunno. To me, to get a remotely accurate figure on infidelity is pretty difficult. Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted September 2, 2005 Share Posted September 2, 2005 34%(men) / 17%(women) cheated The rest said they didn't! Link to post Share on other sites
Topper Posted September 3, 2005 Share Posted September 3, 2005 I'm new here and well I just thought I might be able to really stir up the old pot with my first post. statistic show that about 90% of Males would have sex with another woman if they could get away with it. Now that's just a statistic. getting away with anonymous sex isn't limited to men. As more and more married women entered into the work place. The percentages of woman who would admit wanting to have sex outside the marriage has been going up. The real test of this is How many men and woman have had real affairs. I maybe wrong here it has been a long time since I looked this up. But I'm sure this is close. Something like 70% of all married men have had sex outside the marriage at least once. For woman that is now about 50% Now as to the question. I was married for 18 years and was tempted by offers more then once. I never did have sex with another woman. No I'm not Bill Clinton. Yes i did in a weal moment engage in some passionate kissing and petting. Both of us were married. We were both in a rough place in our marriages and we did find some comfort in each other. I'm glad we never made love as like others have said you have to live with yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
Toni_no12002 Posted October 5, 2005 Share Posted October 5, 2005 Thats why i dont get why people would even bother having relationships anymore!Are we actually able any of us to be faithful?? Link to post Share on other sites
MassiveAtom Posted October 6, 2005 Share Posted October 6, 2005 I am trying to understand men and no, not my boyfriend, men in general. Give up, it's impossible. We don't even understand ourselves. It's an exercise in futility that will forever damage every relationship you have with a guy. Just accept the mystery and be happy in knowing we're different. If you were in a perfect, loving relationship and you were offered sex with a beautiful woman, with a guarantee that your partner would never find out, would you? what does this prove except that there is such a thing as moral relativism? sheesh! Link to post Share on other sites
Blackfrost Posted October 6, 2005 Share Posted October 6, 2005 Give up, it's impossible. We don't even understand ourselves. It's an exercise in futility that will forever damage every relationship you have with a guy. Just accept the mystery and be happy in knowing we're different. I agree. We have to do the same thing on our end with accepting that women will always see things slightly different then us men. That's the way it is. Link to post Share on other sites
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