Feeling like people on dating apps are desperate

[Cookiesandough]

Sorry this is turning too contentious and I realize it is offensive to some so I am closing it. I really did not mean to offend. I was trying to rationalize continuing to date online. Maybe it is projection, who knows. I feel desperate doing it, so I feel bad for others who do it. I still think there's a reason I feel desperate doing it vs other dating. I will read over this and think about it. I didn't mean to come off as judgmental or insult anyone who has had success with it.

Edited January 22, 2018 by Cookiesandough

[amaysngrace]

I'm not offended by you making blanket statements about people who use dating sites or lumping yourself into that group. What I do find peculiar though is the way you self-analyze by making it be bigger than just being about yourself.

 

Next thing you know you'll find a man to date through your friend pool then be back on here trying to figure out what's wrong with finding a serious relationship with people from your friend group and analyzing the people who've found love that way.

 

I'll put money on it.

[BluEyeL]

There are a lot of other people I met here who met their husband or boyfriend online they just don’t post anymore just me )

 

Also know personally success stories in my real life circle. Mostly older women, over 35. Makes sense I hang out with my own age:))