goofygrl05 Posted August 25, 2005 Share Posted August 25, 2005 if somebody can please help! you see my boyfriend from a year and two months, dumped me on monday august 22nd,2005. but its not the first time he has done this. the first time was in june, when he told me he didn't care for me anymore and practically told me he didn't love me anymore. but a week after we broke up we got back together,and three days ago he didn't give me a reason to break up with me which was strange. but today is wednesday and i saw him today at church, and he came up and gave me a hug, now tell me how am i suppose to feel? it wasn't the friendly hug, it was a grasp, like a tight hug. he is really confusing me and i am soo lost. will somebody please help me before i lose my mind? i still love him but i know that if i go back to him then he's just going to do it again, i wish that there was a way that i could tell him how horrible he made me feel and how upset i am that he did that to me again even after i trusted him. please give me some advice before sunday. thanks, brit Link to post Share on other sites
sadguyinlove Posted August 25, 2005 Share Posted August 25, 2005 I know it´s hard to go against your heart. When you see him it hurts right? IMO if he did this to you before he can do it again. You should find somebody who deserves your love. Right on a piece of paper the cons and pros of this relationship. Sleep on it. Link to post Share on other sites
Tiggerlove Posted August 25, 2005 Share Posted August 25, 2005 You're right, if you go back, it'll just happen again. You can't live your life as someone's door mat and let him leave you, then come back, then leave you again. By going back you're asking for your heart to be broken. As hard as it is to do it, you just need to move on. If you normally see eachother at church on Sundays, perhaps go at a different time to avoid seeing him. IF you must talk to him to clear things up, call him..don't bring your personal business to church because all that will happen is he'll get embarassed and walk away from you. I had an ex break up with me without any explaination. It was hard to deal with not knowing for about a year or two, always wondering..but then I found my current boyfriend and realized I didn't need to know the why's. My life moved on, and I was happier once I moved on. Try to busy yourself with things you enjoy doing...eventually it'll get easier without him.I promise. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
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