bene Posted February 23, 2018 Share Posted February 23, 2018 (edited) How can relationships be fun? What’s the funniest part of a relationship? That’s not rhetoric. I genuinely want to know what are fun relationships you had and what made them more fun than being single You didn’t ask me but I’ll still answer if that’s ok. I would say that the fun part is having someone on your wavelength, a companion. For us it’s for example fun to take the dog and just drive to countryside for no reason, eat somewhere on the road, go to a hiking trail or a small town just to see what’s there. It’s not the same alone because the fun part is the process itself, not getting to a specific place. There is an intimate space where I can be goofy, we have some silly inside jokes, like some stupid dance moves or word play etc that would probably be completely ridiculous to anyone “outside”. I wouldn’t be caught dead doing all these things in front of other people I am a huge introvert but I think the intimacy of a warm safe relationship is actually a great “venue” for an introvert to flourish. I missed that when I was single (and I have been single for a large part of my life). I get the feeling that you see relationships as a need to put on an act and to appear a certain way and this seems exhausting. In fact it would be exhausting. But in a good relationship you should be able to be yourself and enjoy it. Edited February 23, 2018 by bene 3 Link to post Share on other sites
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