jess26 Posted February 26, 2018 Share Posted February 26, 2018 (edited) I was in a 6 months relationship, 2 years ago. He's a great guy, he made me feel very happy and safe when I was with him. I ended things as I was very distracted with architecture school, and felt like I never had time to see him. Also, I was leaving for 3 months, and he was going to leave a little bit after that, for 5-6 months during an exchange program. I felt like it wasn't the right timing for a relationship, and leaving him was very sad, and I kinda wished he would fight a little bit more for us, to reassure me regarding his feelings, etc. I did not regret my decision,I knew I was doing the right thing for the both of us. I also felt like getting over it was pretty easy and that surprised me. We stoped talking for a while, until 5 months ago, he reached out again, inviting me to his games, asking when will I be in town for coffee, etc. Clearly he wanted to see me again but that never worked out. First, I went to one of his games after many invitations. I saw him see me, but he did not approach me, it froze me so I left and texted him about it. He said he didn't see me, but I'm not so sure... Either he did but was too shy (it had been a long time), or he actually didn't see me (which I really doubt). [i never understood that part] Anyways, we kept on texting (every once in a while), he asked me if I was going to a get together (with 4 mutual friends - 2 couples). I couldn't make it so he asked when will I be in town again (I live 2 hours away), I said "maybe next weekend" and that ended our conversation. Later on, I heard from a friend that attended the diner, that he actually has a girlfriend (that I never heard about). It sounded very serious, they traveled together, and had been together for 3-4 months. He sends me snaps sometimes, or replies to some things I share, etc. All of this makes me think about him a lot more than I ever did, although it's been 2 years. I really can't stop thinking about him. I was shocked to know he was in a relationship, since he still contacts me. At the same time, I am truly happy that he found someone because he really is a great person and deserves the best. I hope he is content and happy, but I still wonder why talk to me? Edited February 26, 2018 by jess26 Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted February 26, 2018 Share Posted February 26, 2018 What does he want? Simple. A quick roll in the hay. Link to post Share on other sites
salparadise Posted February 26, 2018 Share Posted February 26, 2018 What does he want? Simple. A quick roll in the hay. Maybe. Or perhaps he doesn't see a future with this new relationship, but OP is the one who got away and he never quite let go... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted February 26, 2018 Share Posted February 26, 2018 Maybe. Or perhaps he doesn't see a future with this new relationship, but OP is the one who got away and he never quite let go... And he wants a roll in the hay to make sure, before he leaves his GF... Whatever the reason. There is hay involved. I guarantee it. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
salparadise Posted February 26, 2018 Share Posted February 26, 2018 Whatever the reason. There is hay involved. I guarantee it. True, but that's understood isn't it? Like, whether you call it a quarter pounder or a royale with cheese, everyone knows there's beef between the buns. Link to post Share on other sites
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