GorillaTheater Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 I've tried being like loud cursing people out that just makes it worst. I've tried ignoring that aggravates everything seems to aggravate it seems. I am jealous of my neighbor/coworker she's got a man so they bother her but she just says she got a guy. I don't want a guy though I would rather get my situation together beforehand. I think a lie about your Marine MMA boyfriend would be forgiveable under these circumstances. Link to post Share on other sites
Author htpr24 Posted February 28, 2018 Author Share Posted February 28, 2018 I think a lie about your Marine MMA boyfriend would be forgiveable under these circumstances. Yeah maybe say I'm married. I hate the idea of marriage in my situation even if it's not real. Link to post Share on other sites
mikeylo Posted March 2, 2018 Share Posted March 2, 2018 If you stand out from most of the women around you, men are bound to be attracted to you. The harrassment can be tough to deal. Even if you covered yourself in a veil , they will find you. Even if YOU think you are looking ugly, they will find something attractive in that as well. Cherry on top is that culturally as well, you are different from the locals ( I skimmed through your hair thread). That adds to the 'exotic' thing. So basically, your entire persona , the vibe is different. Since you are probably by yourself, you are available and the guys would want to try. Maybe do find a bf. Once these guys see you with a guy, you will become taken and unavailable and not open to other guys. When an attractive woman is single, guys are going to chase.But your problem is bigger than just this. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted March 2, 2018 Share Posted March 2, 2018 Things are getting really bad lately in general. I live in a bad area I deal with a lot of people that all out have issues and it's hard just going to the store or going to work etc leaving my house generally going to work and not avoid someone harassing me. One guy got so mad he tried to mess me up at work I've had to make police reports in some cases and others where the person wouldn't let it go if I asked to be left alone they'd try to follow me yell at me etc just because I wouldn't talk to them. Now what I want to know is how does one de-escalate the situation? How can one co exist without all the hysteria? how about wearing an Arabic-style Burka that covers everything except your eyes? They come in all different colours if black doesn't appeal to you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author htpr24 Posted March 2, 2018 Author Share Posted March 2, 2018 If you stand out from most of the women around you, men are bound to be attracted to you. The harrassment can be tough to deal. Even if you covered yourself in a veil , they will find you. Even if YOU think you are looking ugly, they will find something attractive in that as well. Cherry on top is that culturally as well, you are different from the locals ( I skimmed through your hair thread). That adds to the 'exotic' thing. So basically, your entire persona , the vibe is different. Since you are probably by yourself, you are available and the guys would want to try. Maybe do find a bf. Once these guys see you with a guy, you will become taken and unavailable and not open to other guys. When an attractive woman is single, guys are going to chase.But your problem is bigger than just this. Well the environment I'm in now is just base basically. Women around here have a whole bunch of kids bad dysfunctional situations habits welfare prison etc... I don't have any of that one can see me and wonder why I'm even in this area well it's to pay off debt at school so I can get myself out of this situation. I don't get bothered when I bring my mom around thankfully. I don't need a guy to mess my life up. Right now I don't want to be bothered by adding that complication. I try to say I'm gay around people I actually know but not random people. Link to post Share on other sites
Author htpr24 Posted March 2, 2018 Author Share Posted March 2, 2018 how about wearing an Arabic-style Burka that covers everything except your eyes? They come in all different colours if black doesn't appeal to you. I NEED THIS for real. I'm actually muslim but I don't believe in a head covering. I think it could benefit me just moving around in the neighborhood they may not even recognize me. I can get to work and take it off put it on when I get off. Link to post Share on other sites
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