Springsummer Posted February 27, 2018 Share Posted February 27, 2018 Just read this new phrase as English is not my first language. I can guess the meaning from the context, but still curious enough to google it. so twin flame is "Without any real cause or reason, you feel as though you’ve known this person before, even if you just met." No wonder I have never found anyone. Most men I have met I don't have this feeling. They feel foreign to me. I maybe have met 1 or 2 that I had this feeling but was too long ago and too stupid back then. In another thread I said I am egocentric, what I really meant I guess was that I only feel my own existence, my own self and don't feel connect to someone else on a mental or spiritual level. How about you? and what do you think? is it necessary to find your twin flame to be in a relationship? but it's almost impossible to find... what if we can never find the other flame? do we just have to learn to be in a relationship with a 'stranger' for practical reason? I guess it's in our DNA to find the connection? but when you can never find it, what do we do? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Springsummer Posted February 27, 2018 Author Share Posted February 27, 2018 and twin flame from another race and culture? I read it from a meetup organizer's fb's post from his wife. she professed how much she loves her hubby. The wife is a beautiful woman with porcelain skin. The man is an Indian. I would consider him the bottom few in the look apartment in the meetups. I can never get the physical appeal of him. Granted he is educated and smart and now judging from his wife's adoration, must have amazing personalty too. so twin flame for her? The man used to date a Chinese before her...oh, how time flies.... Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted February 27, 2018 Share Posted February 27, 2018 Despite having had a number of successful relationships, I have never met someone who I felt like I'd known before. The twin flame idea sounds like romantic fluff to me - something akin to love at first sight - which I've also never experienced. In successful relationships, I have gotten to know a person over a period of time dating them. As we learn about each other, the connection grows. And if the connection is right, love grows. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted February 27, 2018 Share Posted February 27, 2018 and twin flame from another race and culture? I read it from a meetup organizer's fb's post from his wife. she professed how much she loves her hubby. The wife is a beautiful woman with porcelain skin. The man is an Indian. I would consider him the bottom few in the look apartment in the meetups. I can never get the physical appeal of him. Granted he is educated and smart and now judging from his wife's adoration, must have amazing personalty too. so twin flame for her? The man used to date a Chinese before her...oh, how time flies.... He doesn't need an amazing personality. What he needs is the right connection with his wife. One of my friends has a husband who's personality is significantly less than amazing in social situations, but she loves him. I guess the two of them just gel. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
unit1 Posted February 27, 2018 Share Posted February 27, 2018 Twin flame is always with u , sometimes will be physical manifestion in this life travel, sometimes never come down here, but always there in another dimention. Link to post Share on other sites
Chilli Posted February 27, 2018 Share Posted February 27, 2018 (edited) l know most don't believe this stuff but believe me if it happens to you you'll change your view . But anyway she's a very lucky women spring and no not very many couples will experience that kind of soul between them. But on average , yaknow , to have real connection , understanding , at one between you and real love is enough to hopefully have a very happy life together. Strange really ,actually though the most lasting couples l know don't even have that , it's been more of a building thing. Edited February 27, 2018 by Chilli Link to post Share on other sites
wmacbride Posted February 27, 2018 Share Posted February 27, 2018 Personally, I think it's fluff. there are billions and billions of people in the world, and this "twin fame" idea makes no sense to me. Even if it does happen, that doesn't mean a guaranteed great relationship. That's not to say you can't meet someone who seems like a perfect match for you. That can and does happen. The problem becomes people who feel thqat's enough to sustain a relationship when it's not. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Springsummer Posted March 1, 2018 Author Share Posted March 1, 2018 I wonder if I missed something? I unfollowed this ex friend, especially after he got married. I don't think I really enjoy seeing pregnant and baby news. yesterday I can't help and looked....I am shocked the last post was he holding his dog....that's exactly the way I like to hold my cat the most! over my shoulder, my cat's face caress my back and I patting his pat pat and tail in the front. I think we have similarity in spirit. He is also an Indian. but he was a model and did a few movies in Bollywood. he was the only one who often liked my post before he got serious with this woman. but I was being a jerk to him I guess. I rarely liked his posts and I flatly refused to help him post rent ad and I also declined to meet with him for dinner. I think he liked me, but not enough to put up with any of my craps. especially so many white women like him, what did I think? now I have no idea why I did what I did. I guess it is fate. I was in a crappy mental state and not happy with my career. I was afraid and picky. and I think in the end it wouldn't change anything. I don't think ultimately I can win over this woman who is a pharmacist and seems to have a good head and so adore and accommodating and wanted this guy badly, unlike me. yes, I checked she helped him post the rent ad. maybe I have never been happy with myself and not confidence. roots of my problems? Link to post Share on other sites
wmacbride Posted March 1, 2018 Share Posted March 1, 2018 You think you are "twin flames" because of how he holds his dog and some of his attitudes? Sounds to me like you are are lamenting the one who got away and mourning the loss. Let it go and move on. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Springsummer Posted March 1, 2018 Author Share Posted March 1, 2018 You think you are "twin flames" because of how he holds his dog and some of his attitudes? Sounds to me like you are are lamenting the one who got away and mourning the loss. Let it go and move on. na...forget about it. If we were, we wouldn't be like this. no lose. coz it was next to nothing. I am sure I am not even at the back of his mind AT ALL. besides, I don't even like married men. They smell stink. he sure is a very practical and smart person, why should I be an idiot? It was just a flash of thought. Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted March 2, 2018 Share Posted March 2, 2018 twin flames are not soul mates ...they are our mirrors and tend to be more of a growth thing than a relationship thing if you were to meet a twin flame....twin flames meeting can be passionate and intense...intense being key here.... because more often than not they are intensely painful relationships where you are seeing a reflection of what you don't like in yourself..and when its passionate or intense and a little confusing its could possibly be what you do like in yourself...... and not really long term relationships more off again on again because they are intense its that chance of seeing yourself through another person... doesnt have to be any where near romantic either...can be same sex....i think you might be thinking of soul mates....and twin flames are not soul mates....deb Link to post Share on other sites
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