Nightstick008 Posted February 27, 2018 Share Posted February 27, 2018 OMG! I had been separated from my wife for a year. I dated a woman my age for about six months and I guess I wasn't ready for that because she broke it off and I felt destroyed. I have always kept in contact with my ex as we are only separated and we keep it civil. Until we hooked up. I ended it. A few months later a woman I was friends with asked if we cold date. I started to date her and felt almost like I was being used. While in this relationship I came across a porn video. It was most certainly my ex which I am separated from. The reason we separated was she had an inappropriate relationship. Now in this video which I went frame to frame. It's her. Certain as I can be. I see it was made or published three years ago. We were still together. It's on an actual porn site. My minds still blown away. I confronted her and she denied that it's her. Big shocker there. I even sent her the link. Still denies it. I'm not sure if she thinks I'm going to use it against her or what. She still denies it. I told her I'm not planning on disclosing it. I might be a scum bag but not that much of one. So I go on a nice weekend with my lady friend. The one I feel used by. We go to some venue with a band. We know absolutely no one. She has a friend there. I walk up to the bar and get a round of drinks. I was approached by some random guy. He tells me that these woman are using me and were talking trash about me when I was away. I confront her in a nice way and she does the crying denial. She actually said, "You think I'm a whore?" I never even said that. I'm like what the hell. So I'm here all upset because my actual wife lies about being in a porn and my new squeeze is using me. Yeah. I feel like a tool. I don't fight with woman. I just walk away. I don't and can't comprehend how evil woman can be. It's beyond my understanding. To hurt someone for what? I don't cheat. I work hard. I am nice to people. The only person I'm not too nice too is myself I guess. It drags me down and I have been trying so hard to cope. The divorce will go on. This other woman wants to move in with me. I'm like what do I do? I need to be strong and not allow it. My life is an episode of one of those lifetime movies. There's more but you get the point. Link to post Share on other sites
Just a Guy Posted February 27, 2018 Share Posted February 27, 2018 Hi Night, I guess you have to learn to love yourself first. After reading your OP I'm getting the feeling that you have low self esteem issues and low self respect. Get into IC and address your issues. Drop this lady you're dating lime a hot brick. Stay away from ladies while you work on yourself. After you have spent time with your IC and worked on your issues till your IC says you are in a better place, you can look at dating women again. Till then it should be taboo for you. Also, learn to distinguish between the kind of women you want and the ones you seem to pick. I guess it's the vibes you give off that attract the wrong kind of woman to you. Take care of yourself! Warm wishes. Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted February 27, 2018 Share Posted February 27, 2018 My life is an episode of one of those lifetime movies. Yeah. Why are you taking a starring role? You should have some self respect and just cut yourself off from these drama llamas. Clearly your marriage is over, so get a divorce. Clearly your next relationship is a bad one, so move on. You are not nice to yourself. You allow yourself to be used and abused by these women. Why is that? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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