DH123 Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 I have been with my girlfriend for 5 months and we have hit a hard spot. She spelt with someone before me and I'll be honest, the way it happened made me feel bad. Like I wasn't good enough. But I've trying really hard to get over it. The guy she slept with is now dating her friend and I'm scared to see him. I'm scared ill run into him. It's not him that I'm scared of, I'm scared of feeling that way (at least that's what I think) but I'm not sure. And I'm not sure why it bothers me, I love her, she has a past, but for some reason I just can't get over it. We are taking a break and I don't want to lose her. Link to post Share on other sites
somanymistakes Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 If you're taking a break it sounds like you have more problems than just her past. Why would her sleeping with a guy before you make you feel like you're not good enough? What did it have to do with you? Is there a story there? Once you're out of high school, almost anyone you meet will have some level of past. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BarbedFenceRider Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 So, she slept with someone before you...And how long before you was this? Like a previous relationship? Or the night before last.... You feel bad because of performance issues on your side? Or She had a bad experience and you are left with a pile of emotional issues on her side.... I guess we will need some clarification and context into your relationship to make a better judgement. Link to post Share on other sites
Tribble Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 You're upset about how it happened. How did it happen? And how does that make you feel? Is this break due to your retroactive jealousy or something else? You may have already lost her - breaks are rarely good. Was it initiated by you or her? Gonna need a little more to give advise me thinks. Link to post Share on other sites
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