adamsbabygirl Posted August 29, 2005 Share Posted August 29, 2005 need some advise. Please help. I am 20 years old. I have been dating this guy for 7 months. My parents hate him and wish for me to break up with him. First of all let me tell you about my man. He is 21 years old, and he is in a wheel chair. He has a disease called muscular disofiend. I am not sure if I even spelled that right. The only thing that he can not do is walk. He does not have the full blown disease. His brother has it as well but his sister does not. His family compelely adores me and likes me ALOT. My parents and my little brother say that I am messing my life and that I am much better off without him and that he will never amount to anything and that I am just wasting my time. I try and tell them how complety in love I am and how happy I am. He treats me like a goddess he is just so amazing I can not describe it, he has treated me the best out of every guy I have dated. He believes and supports me through everything. I tell him everything we are so very very comfortable with each other. He makes me a better women. I have given him the streghten to re learn how to walk and he is making progress. We push and support each other like no other. He sends me roses buys me things treats me so well. He would die for me and I would die for him and I buy him things and its just so perfect. Then there are my parents again telling me that I don't know what I want and they want nothing to do with Adam and I. It hurts me all the time and my brother doesn't help he will make jokes and I never thought that my family would be like this. I guess the people they talk to agree with them and people I have talked with agree with Adam and I. I don't know what to do anymore. I even told my parents that we broke up but we did not but its not working. I love him so much and he loves me very very much. I know my parents want what is best for me but Adam is so caring and takes amazing care of me and he loves me like no other man has ever loved me before. He tells me how amazing and how wonderful and beautiful I am,he makes me the women who I am now. I know they want was his best for me but I think I know myself little bit better then they do. Please help!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
NiCoLe20 Posted August 29, 2005 Share Posted August 29, 2005 just do whatever your happy with. your parents wont be around forever. try talking to them in depth about ur relationship....get them to realize how much in love you are. just talk to them. Link to post Share on other sites
AmberAriesMom Posted September 3, 2005 Share Posted September 3, 2005 Honey, your bf doesn't have muscular disofiend......he has Muscular Dsytrophy. You need to look it up. See if the future with this disease is where you want to be. I'm not knocking your kindness to this man or his interest in you. It's great that his handicapp is not a problem for you....right now! But damn! If you can't spell it, I hardly think you know what's in store for you. What you see now is not how it will always be. Better make sure your desire to help the unfortunate you see at this state of his disease is not the limits of how you will be willing and able to help him later on as his disease progresses. Real LOVE will be necessary for a very long time and you won't get a lot back later on. Some people are able to handle this sort of thing and others are not. In all fairness to the both of you, know what the future holds! Link to post Share on other sites
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