Can this kind of banter get me in trouble?

[FilterCoffee]

So at my office I like to occasionally make fun of my colleagues (or myself) in a light hearted, pg 13, manner. For example, the other day a colleague of mine said something like “Why are you dieting FilterCoffee? You never have any sweets these days.” to which I replied “I’m not slim like you right so I have to be extra careful.” Another time she asked me about my girlfriend (which I don’t have) to which I said “I don’t have a gf R. Nobody wants me. I’m not lucky to be married like you.” I always respond with a cheeky smile. At my office nobody has a problem with this kind of talk and everyone seems to enjoy it including my bosses but could this land me in trouble elsewhere?

[d0nnivain]

Yes that kind of banter could potentially get you in trouble elsewhere. Banter can be OK if it's part of the office culture & everyone appreciates it as lighthearted. Problem is sometimes the very people who are offended feel like they can't speak up & have to go along to get along.

 

At work your best bet it to keep things G rated, not flirty & focused on work. In short be polite & professional.

[CautiouslyOptimistic]

I'm not sure I'd call that banter...

[FilterCoffee]

I'm not sure I'd call that banter...

 

What would you call that CO? Keep in mind, that this particular girl initiates these kind of conversations at least 50% of the times.

[CautiouslyOptimistic]

What would you call that CO? Keep in mind, that this particular girl initiates these kind of conversations at least 50% of the times.

 

I'd just call it conversation, but maybe I'm just not getting the "joke." Usually banter is funny/flirty.

[Malin889]

I think it’s awesome when people tell jokes in the office. Agree I don’t think it’s banter, but I wouldn’t worry about it. It’s good to have a little fun In the office.

[FilterCoffee]

Thanks for the replies people. Seems like what I said was pretty innocuous but I guess it’s best to err on the conservative side while at the workplace.