Author Aba 123 Posted May 25, 2018 Author Share Posted May 25, 2018 What the ****. Just leave the relationship. Problem solved. Love him from afar. Love doesn't require a relationship. Love doesn't require reciprocation. Love just is. It's your greed of wanting to be loved back that requires reciprocation and togetherness. If you love someone, love them. That doesn't mean they have to be in your life. You can't control who you fall in love with. However, you can control who you allow into your life! I did left him because I was very hurt after many many fights and hurtful things he said to me, at the time I did said to him I love you but we can't be together and he can't understand how can you love someone and not want to be with that person, I tried but I still love him and I couldn't be without him. All I want is to save my relationship with him and make him happy but Idk how because of his vulcanic personality. Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted May 25, 2018 Share Posted May 25, 2018 I did left him because I was very hurt after many many fights and hurtful things he said to me, at the time I did said to him I love you but we can't be together and he can't understand how can you love someone and not want to be with that person, I tried but I still love him and I couldn't be without him. All I want is to save my relationship with him and make him happy but Idk how because of his vulcanic personality. You will never fix this relationship and you will never make him happy because he is *sick*. I hope you wake up when he starts hitting you. Link to post Share on other sites
bene Posted May 27, 2018 Share Posted May 27, 2018 I did left him because I was very hurt after many many fights and hurtful things he said to me, at the time I did said to him I love you but we can't be together and he can't understand how can you love someone and not want to be with that person, I tried but I still love him and I couldn't be without him. All I want is to save my relationship with him and make him happy but Idk how because of his vulcanic personality. You cannot save this relationship as he has made clear that he does not love you. You cannot be in a relationship alone. The things he said to you are horrible and painful to read, I can feel the ugliness and anger even through the screen and it’s frightening. Also, you cannot make another person happy if they don’t want to be with you. Whatever has made him such an angry resentful person is beyond your control. Do you have friends or any counseling available to you? You need all the support you can get, it is very worrying that you consider staying with him. I think you’re in actual physical danger. Link to post Share on other sites
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