Ronen Posted August 31, 2005 Share Posted August 31, 2005 Hi everyone. I just got home from a blind date. No dice. He was pretty easy to talk to, but there was "0" attraction. No..I won't give it a second chance. I'm 27 and I know what love feels like, I know what a second chance feels like. But I honestly haven't dated that much in the past year. And I consider myself a cute, fit, put together, successful young female. Why is it so hard to find that person you clique with, that you're meant to be with. I had true love once, I lost it. I'm forvever scarred. And I won't get over it until I find another love...but when??? When is it my turn again. This is all getting so frustrating and EMBARASSING! Any advice (or hugs) appreciated! Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted August 31, 2005 Share Posted August 31, 2005 Here's a hug for ya, girl! Advice: keep looking and have lots of meaningless sex in the meanwhile! :bunny: :bunny: Link to post Share on other sites
dreaming4ever Posted August 31, 2005 Share Posted August 31, 2005 Don't give up. Keep trying. I had a horrible blind date a week ago but today I had an amazing date with the nice/sweetest guy, so you never know, the right guy could be right around the corner.... Link to post Share on other sites
Big9erFan Posted August 31, 2005 Share Posted August 31, 2005 ...but there was "0" attraction. No..I won't give it a second chance. I'm 27 and I know what love feels like, I know what a second chance feels like. Ok, I get the "0" attraction part and not willing to give it a second chance, but I don't see how there could be love on the first date, let alone a blind date. Ok, so there was no animal attraction that you wanted to see if you could build something more on, fair enough. I used to think there was something called "true love", maybe I'm just jaded from my divorce, but I don't know if it really exists. Then I look at my parents and wonder how they have kept that spark through 33 yrs of marriage and 3 kids and some really hard times. Is it true love or just a constant willingness to NOT give up on their relationship and keep working on things and that ( with other things ) keeps things going. I dunno... Your time will come soon enough, though I'm sure it will never feel soon enough. Once you really stop looking is when you'll get hit in the face with someone you all the sudden realize fits what you want. Hope it goes well. - Jeremy Link to post Share on other sites
EIN Posted September 3, 2005 Share Posted September 3, 2005 take your time, ur 27. Im 24 and I feel like Im the oldest 24 year old in the world. Its like what the above said, stop looking and itll show up or as I say" be confident in who you are then find someone who compliments your other half. Dont go having meaningless sex cause with all the STDs flying around, there is no safe way to think just by looking at someone. Link to post Share on other sites
Weird Posted September 10, 2005 Share Posted September 10, 2005 *hug* for you Hey babe, join the club. I too am 27 (well 27 in 2 months) and want to find that amazing girl but it hasnt happened and that bugs me because I have soooooo much to offer and could make that special girl feel like the queen of the world. So far my ex from a couple years back is prolly the best all around girl I have met in my life with maybe the exception of this cool woman I met on here (this site last year) who seems to have vanished since I havent heard from her for a couple months. It is all fugged up....I do think you cant seek out that person and they have to just show up but then again, what if that person thinks the same way and nothing happens? I guess it requires a big belief in fate that somehow it will happen and the paths will cross. Link to post Share on other sites
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