RobMele Posted June 14, 2018 Share Posted June 14, 2018 So I’ve got a trip coming up in 2 weeks with my friends and we're going Berlin. My ex gf lives there and we have split up 2 years ago. I really wanted to see her for a chilled out coffee and was wondering what would be the best way to ask her. We haven’t really been in contact and last time we spoke was like 5 month ago. Do you think I should let her know like a week in advance? or tell her am there when I actually arrive? And will a simple text do it? Would be helpful if girls gave me some advice as I don’t really want to scare her off lol In all honesty I persuaded my friends to go on the trip cause I know she lives there so it’s a little sneaky but am really not expecting anything major to happen and always wanted to visit the city anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
ambyc92 Posted June 14, 2018 Share Posted June 14, 2018 Rob your question made me chuckle a little, lol i like how you low key chose this place because your ex lives in the area. I think the best person to answer your question is you, did you guys break up on good terms? if yes then by all means maybe she can even show you guys around. If it was more of a rough/emotional break up or it was a bad break.....are you ok with getting a chilly reception or no reception at all. As long as your fine with whatever outcome I can't see the harm other than potentially annoying your friends, hopefully they'd be cool with it too But as i suspect you have a little bit of a torch for her and it seems like you defiantly want to, i would keep it light and casual "hey i'm gonna be in **** next week we should catch up... if she answers great if not thats great for you too your still on vacation with friends have fun! But defiantly only message once, once sends off casual take it or leave it vibes..more than that and yes it would be weird. So IÂ’ve got a trip coming up in 2 weeks with my friends and we're going Berlin. My ex gf lives there and we have split up 2 years ago. I really wanted to see her for a chilled out coffee and was wondering what would be the best way to ask her. We havenÂ’t really been in contact and last time we spoke was like 5 month ago. Do you think I should let her know like a week in advance? or tell her am there when I actually arrive? And will a simple text do it? Would be helpful if girls gave me some advice as I donÂ’t really want to scare her off lol In all honesty I persuaded my friends to go on the trip cause I know she lives there so itÂ’s a little sneaky but am really not expecting anything major to happen and always wanted to visit the city anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
Murmillo Posted June 14, 2018 Share Posted June 14, 2018 No offense but you seem a little manipulative to me... You already made a thread about this 4 months ago: https://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/second-chances/635622-should-i-travel-see-my-ex-updated-ask-ex-meet-up Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted June 14, 2018 Share Posted June 14, 2018 At least a week's notice. Send something very chill. Hey, I'm gonna be in Berlin next week. Any chance you can fit me in so we can grab a coffee? Link to post Share on other sites
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