He says that I'm not giving him what he needs... I need to be "softer"

[errrclii]

I moved this thread -- sorry first time poster.

Edited June 15, 2018 by errrclii

[Arieswoman]

I'm not sure what you mean - can you be more specific?

[S2B]

From your other thread - it seems you two are not a good match.

 

Why do you want to marry someone who is not a good match for you?

[MidwestUSA]

I'm not sure what you mean - can you be more specific?

 

Don't waste your breath. She's been advised to leave him for four years now; it's not gonna happen.

[Luvmykidz]

There's another woman he's comparing you to.

[TheRainbow]

I bet he's cheating. I read your last post about him interviewing someone, and revealing his life story, and it screams lack of boundaries. I know where something like this ends up. You remind me of my husband who let me walk all over him. My advice is to run, don't get married. He doesn't respect you. Is this what he tells a complete stranger, what does he tell a friend? Now he is trying to set you up in case you find out he's cheating, and then blame it on you. Sometimes I even blame my affair on my husband. It's not right.

Edited June 26, 2018 by TheRainbow