Poppy47 Posted June 18, 2018 Share Posted June 18, 2018 A text will do if you want. I wouldn't even do that. Poppy Link to post Share on other sites
Author AngelLove Posted June 18, 2018 Author Share Posted June 18, 2018 A text will do if you want. I wouldn't even do that. Poppy So you would prefer ghosting?For me I just prefer to put a finality buy officially ending up then leaving lines of communication open Link to post Share on other sites
Poppy47 Posted June 18, 2018 Share Posted June 18, 2018 I am wondering why you want to leave room for communication? He doesn't seem worth the trouble of a good bye text. Were you hoping for something in the future with him? I don't think that will happen. Go ahead and ghost him. POppy Link to post Share on other sites
Normm Posted June 18, 2018 Share Posted June 18, 2018 Thinking a guy who will cheat on his wife and use his affair partner for nothing more than sex doesn't deserve the consideration of as much as a breakup text. Link to post Share on other sites
fredflint Posted June 18, 2018 Share Posted June 18, 2018 Yes, I imagine I would get more than just "bored" by a relationship when the only thing the man wanted from me was my female body parts and I had to be a secret in every other way. I see what you did there Link to post Share on other sites
Author AngelLove Posted June 19, 2018 Author Share Posted June 19, 2018 So you would prefer ghosting?For me I just prefer to put a finality buy officially ending up then leaving lines of communication open I meant than leaving lines of communication open.It was a typo Now that I have thought about ,I think I'm just better off fading away and stop reaching out.We used to communicate a lot even when he is at home.Now I only hear from him during work hours, never at home anymore. I'm lucky if I get response outside his work hours There was part of me that was hoping things would be different if he wasn't married and if he ever divorce his wife in the future.But that's highly unlikely to happen by the look of things 1 Link to post Share on other sites
S2B Posted June 20, 2018 Share Posted June 20, 2018 But if you don't outright state "it's over!" He will likely lay it on thick and heavy when he realizes you're doing the slow fade. Then he will reel you back into your "proper position" only to treat you poorly again after you are back in your proper place (for him/his benefit). If you don't make it clear what your stance is - the relationship isn't really ending. Link to post Share on other sites
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