somuchmusic Posted June 18, 2018 Share Posted June 18, 2018 I have been friends with L for about two years now. Since day one he has been the most caring and considerate human I have ever met, helping me out, hanging out with me - but he never ever showed any romantic interest in me - or anyone else. I went from thinking he might be gay to asexual to maybe something happened to him in the past. He never mentioned a guy or a girl in a romantic sense - and he is in his late 20s. L is tall, cute, slightly strange, but who isn't? I love spending time with him. A few months ago L started to seem different. I can't explain it, but he suddenly turned a lot hotter (more confident), he gave me a flower, he told me he changed. Again - no moves have been made. To clarify, I have been dating guys but every time I get to hang out with L, all the other guys just fall in comparison and this is not doing anything for my love life since every guy I compare to L. He asks me to hang out all the time, has helped me move, has asked me on a trip and to the movies, he brings me random presents and cooks for me. He has also turned a bit more tactile. But I feel if I say anything I will scare him away. I value our friendship a lot, but I can't help but to think there might be something more there. Any thoughts? Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted June 18, 2018 Share Posted June 18, 2018 (edited) Here's a thread that might be of interest to you as your problems sound similar. https://www.loveshack.org/forums/platonic/friendship/658192-why-doesnt-he-pay-attention I can only say that if your telling him how you feel is going to scare him away it's not a good sign. Edited June 18, 2018 by stillafool Link to post Share on other sites
warp123 Posted June 23, 2018 Share Posted June 23, 2018 In 2 years he hasnt attempted anything, so hes put himself on the friendzone area, let him play his role and find a man for romance. Link to post Share on other sites
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