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For me its like this. I have done my social environment dating and the online thing.

 

On line is all about physical looks. Then you meet and see if there is more than that. At least with ON line has the advantage that people on that are single or should be.

 

Your natural social environment. One always has to play Private Eye.. Finding out the real scoop on a romantic prospect in terms of are they single/do you click with each other romantically.

 

So Online should be easier if both parties dig each other physically. Let face it. If your not into each other in terms of making out/hugs/sex. Nothing is going to get off the ground. You also need to care about each other as well. That takes time.

 

I think everyone is under specific dynamics that make them more successful or not in various areas of their lives. For me If I really want a woman that is going to be a great partner in life. I have to wait for the universe to let her land around me and vice versa. No Tinder/Match.com etc is really going to work for me. I need things to be in a natural organic way. For others. They need the Tinder/Match thing.

 

One just has to decide which one works. I still say that for most guys. If you really want a woman to like you romantically. Being flirty and laid back is the way to go. Not calling everyday and showing major interest from the start.

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Very funny!

 

I believe it's largely that Baby Boomer women are of the mindset that it's the guy's role to ask first. So I 'fulfill my responsibility to make first contact' and will be pleasantly surprised if a second woman I'd be interested in contacts me.

I'm not so sure it's just baby boomers. This is consistent with my experience as well. However, with that said, I plan to give Bumble a try next. With that service, only the women are allowed to message first, which sounds very appealing to me.

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I'm definitely looking for love, but I certainly won't mind some physical affection until then. I'm pretty affection-starved at the moment... :p

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