Gaeta Posted June 22, 2018 Share Posted June 22, 2018 Everyone is American in America, the US. I’m not sure what you mean. He means date women of different cultures. I am gonna make a wild guess here, you're from the south of the US? and you're tired of being surrounded by Dixie Belles? If so date women of Asian culture, Hispanic culture, East Europe, African, Middle East, your choice! Link to post Share on other sites
AnotherGuy1234 Posted June 22, 2018 Share Posted June 22, 2018 I think that everyone has different strengths and weaknesses. For me off the top of my head. I can converse with a lot of people and bring others into the conversation. My weakness. When I like a woman romantically. I can't convey it to her in a way that works for me. I think tank it way too much. I am stronger at friendship than romantic dating. More Later. Thats how my girlfriend is. She seems to value her friendship more than our relationship Link to post Share on other sites
Author Logo Posted June 22, 2018 Author Share Posted June 22, 2018 When dating turns into a spreadsheet, accounting exercise and statistical analysis, IMO that's a good point to take a break from that sort of focus and shift it to events, interests or activities which flow potential partner/date meetings more organically. I’m looking for an outdoor activity group. I think once I find as good group it’ll be a lot easier. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Mysterio Posted June 22, 2018 Share Posted June 22, 2018 Thats how my girlfriend is. She seems to value her friendship more than our relationship Life is about Balance. I basically am with some faction of my friends once a week or so. I think that if I am with a woman. She will be important. I am not going to screw her over for my friends. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Logo Posted June 22, 2018 Author Share Posted June 22, 2018 He means date women of different cultures. I am gonna make a wild guess here, you're from the south of the US? and you're tired of being surrounded by Dixie Belles? If so date women of Asian culture, Hispanic culture, East Europe, African, Middle East, your choice! IÂ’m in the north. ItÂ’s not a race or ethnicity issue, itÂ’s a culture of superficiality. And it spans the gamut. It just seems that all the good ones are taken and all the ones left, either live in a fairytale or are naturally fickle. And it doesnÂ’t help that thereÂ’s a pervasive culture that puts emphasis on the number of followers on Twitter or Instagram or Snapchat, or how many friends she has on Facebook. I was once at a party where younger women in their 20s were busy taking selfies instead of enjoying their surroundings. TheyÂ’re definitely not in my demographic group. The tragedy is that women in their 30s are becoming like that with every passing year. IÂ’m simply looking for someone who I find both mentally and physically attractive. Someone who meshes with my personality. ItÂ’s time to enjoy some time alone and invest more than ever in my life and hobbies. Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted June 22, 2018 Share Posted June 22, 2018 How old are you Logo? Link to post Share on other sites
Adiron Posted June 22, 2018 Share Posted June 22, 2018 (edited) Let’s go with 95% of single women maybe that will comfort your delicate sensibilities. You can't "go with 95% of single women" unless you've dated 100% of single women. You continue to make up numbers as you go along to validate your continuing failures, and worse yet you casually insult others who are trying to point out your errors and improve your odds. Go ahead and throw around all the insults you want. It won't help you get laid. Edited June 22, 2018 by Adiron Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted June 22, 2018 Share Posted June 22, 2018 So how did you two know it was worth the risk? It sounds corny but, speaking for myself, I just knew. I mean, at any moment, your relationship could have ended and you'd have been left seeing each other at work every day. That was the other reason for one of us quitting. Were things somehow to go south, we didn't want the post-relationship drama of working together. I actually lost the flip but she decided would be better if she changed jobs. A keeper ... Mr. Lucky Link to post Share on other sites
Author Logo Posted June 23, 2018 Author Share Posted June 23, 2018 (edited) You can't "go with 95% of single women" unless you've dated 100% of single women. You continue to make up numbers as you go along to validate your continuing failures, and worse yet you casually insult others who are trying to point out your errors and improve your odds. Go ahead and throw around all the insults you want. It won't help you get laid. “Getting laid”? You inadvertently proved my point from a few posts up. Are you in the northeast, too? Thanks for the attempt to help, though. I’m sure classy phrases like that help you “get laid”. After all, that’s all relationships are about. Getting laid, right? By the way, apparently you can dish it, but you can’t take it: “doesn't matter where you started. It matters where you are right now and you my friend are NOT in a good Place. The negativity is radiating off of you like the rays of the sun on a bright summer day.” I guess I should have prefaced my comment with “my friend”. That would have made it more palpable. Anyway, thanks, dating guru. Edited June 23, 2018 by Logo Link to post Share on other sites
Author Logo Posted June 23, 2018 Author Share Posted June 23, 2018 I actually lost the flip but she decided would be better if she changed jobs. A keeper ... Mr. Lucky Now that’s love. I wish you both the best. Link to post Share on other sites
AnotherGuy1234 Posted June 25, 2018 Share Posted June 25, 2018 “Getting laid”? You inadvertently proved my point from a few posts up. Are you in the northeast, too? Thanks for the attempt to help, though. I’m sure classy phrases like that help you “get laid”. After all, that’s all relationships are about. Getting laid, right? By the way, apparently you can dish it, but you can’t take it: “doesn't matter where you started. It matters where you are right now and you my friend are NOT in a good Place. The negativity is radiating off of you like the rays of the sun on a bright summer day.” I guess I should have prefaced my comment with “my friend”. That would have made it more palpable. Anyway, thanks, dating guru. Some people think it is about getting laid all the time...promiciousity has killed relationships. I rather be with one woman who loves me the same and rock her socks off. Anytime. Anywhere. Lube or no lube...spit on it. Link to post Share on other sites
Adiron Posted June 25, 2018 Share Posted June 25, 2018 “Getting laid”? You inadvertently proved my point from a few posts up. Are you in the northeast, too? Yes I'm in the Northeast too. And my dating experiences have been quite positive I am not nearly so jaded as you are about the female dating population in this area. Although admittedly I haven't dated in 6 yrs since I met my current girlfriend. But back then- I had no problems meeting attractive women with lots to offer who didn't play games. Link to post Share on other sites
Chilli Posted June 27, 2018 Share Posted June 27, 2018 Everyone is American in America, the US. I’m not sure what you mean. Ahhh , so there in lies the problem. Just move to Europe then and you'll know what l mean. Link to post Share on other sites
Chilli Posted June 27, 2018 Share Posted June 27, 2018 If you'd gotten to the point where you agreed to flip a coin, then you must have understood early on the risk involved in getting into a relationship with your coworkers. So how did you two know it was worth the risk? I mean, at any moment, your relationship could have ended and you'd have been left seeing each other at work every day. @ When it happens you know , there's no any moment thing . 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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