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I need to get some head!!!


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I just got out of a LTR and have recently began dating again. I have been seeing this guy now for almost 2 months, and he's initiated that he wants us to be official and exclusive just this past month.

 

The problem being is that he's never gone down on a girl! He's 26 and he was in a relationship with his ex for 4-5 years. I don't understand at all how that can be?! All of my relationships have been VERY giving and very sexual. I'm only 4 years younger than him and feel maybe I'm way more sexually experienced than him? Nothing like crazy kinky, but I do enjoy giving and recieving head. I'm all about quality versus quantity =) So now the problem is --- I've gone down on him a couple of times (<5 times), and he finally tried once with me for like about a minute. Now I know that it was a huge step for him as he's never ever done that, but... I can't help but want it even more.

 

I also feel its especially unfair that he thinks he can get head from me when he's not giving. I have rationally explained this to him, that in order to recieve he must give. But I am not going to just sit around and do nothing, I still enjoy pleasing, but how long is too long to wait around for some head?? I told him that I would wait for him for when he's ready, but sexually I'm getting very impatient and irritated. He keeps saying that once we're ready for sex, I'll understand why he's never had to give head. I'm like sooooooooo your trying to say your size will make up for other areas? I dont think so. He is quite large and seems to last a while, but isnt that kinda messed up to think?? I'm pretty confused as I have not been in the dating scene for awhile. The only thing he's told me that once we get it on I'll be much more satisfied. And that he will give head, but when he's ready for it...

 

I dont know what else to say as I've said all I can and given enough head that he should know this is an equal opportunity fight here! Am I being too selfish and impatient?

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