DrReplyInRhymes Posted June 29, 2018 Share Posted June 29, 2018 I can't get a date! Teach me please! Link to post Share on other sites
Happy Lemming Posted June 29, 2018 Share Posted June 29, 2018 Roses are red Violets are blue Keep trying and trying She is out there, for you!! 3 Link to post Share on other sites
rightondude Posted June 29, 2018 Share Posted June 29, 2018 If a date you get what will you do then my friend this is what to learn 1 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted June 29, 2018 Share Posted June 29, 2018 Dear Doctor The prescription for what ails you is time. You are only recently out of a break up. Odds are you are trying too hard without realizing it. Make plans with friends to do something chill but fun for the 4th of July. In your relaxed state talk to new women. See if one you fancy starts flirting with you. Note I said you talk. She flirts. Get the order right. You are a good guy The right woman won't pass you by Patience is the name of this game Only then will you find the right dame. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ElKay Posted June 29, 2018 Share Posted June 29, 2018 Where have you been looking? I, personally, feel awkward if someone just randomly starts talking to me out in the city, so it could depend what you're doing to try and get a date in the first place. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Chilli Posted June 30, 2018 Share Posted June 30, 2018 Haha l like donni's , get the order right huh , l make a note of that, nice and simple Even though l don't date anyway but ohwell. If your just out of a break up though why are you even bothered right now anyway. ? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Happy Lemming Posted June 30, 2018 Share Posted June 30, 2018 Yes, I agree "d0nnivain" wins... So Doctor, is it Friday night where you are?? If so, get out there!! Go to your local watering hole, have a beer. Just being social, may lead to meeting someone. Fate may be sitting on the bar stool next to you, you never know... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted June 30, 2018 Share Posted June 30, 2018 Advertize yourself everywhere it's possible. Tell your friends, family, colleagues that you are interested in dating, get into a group like a sport group, a hobby group, political group, get good pictures of you and ask a female friend to make an online profile for you, go speed dating, go to singles events organized by dating sites. Finally be patient! and enjoy life! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author DrReplyInRhymes Posted July 2, 2018 Author Share Posted July 2, 2018 I appreciate all the insight and the many suggestions you've all gave, My desperation is not apparent, I promise, it's taking all I've got to behave, I've gone out and had fun with some friends from my past, We drank, we smoked, we visited some venues and had a blast. Normally I am torn up after a relationship when it was absolutely worth it, Being second place to another man? My heart no longer cared, I didn't hurt it, I'm not on the hunt to find my soulmate, I'm just looking for a good time, So I decided to ask all these people going out on dates and do it through rhymes! Seems as if my reputation precedes me around here where I frequent the most, People don't let go of the past, my rambunctious younger self I no longer host, I read about all kinds of dates people have and I often wonder, so I thought, Maybe I should ask those going on dates where they meet, however, not the answer I got! Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted July 2, 2018 Share Posted July 2, 2018 If you can't get past your bad rep, perhaps move on to a new hunting ground. Link to post Share on other sites
Happy Lemming Posted July 2, 2018 Share Posted July 2, 2018 Maybe I should ask those going on dates where they meet, however, not the answer I got! I'm not going to be able to rhyme this, but I, personally, didn't have much luck with "on line dating". It could be me, but I do better meeting people in real life. Some of the places I've met women that have turned into my more "successful" relationships are: Local Pub/Bar - by far the best place (in my opinion) Used Bookstore College Through Friends Coin - op Laundry Grocery Store Bank (in line waiting) Common Sport activity Apartment Complex pool I hope this short list helps a little bit. Link to post Share on other sites
ElKay Posted July 2, 2018 Share Posted July 2, 2018 I've met a lot of people from online dating that I never would have met in real life and so that's something I would still recommend, depending on the kind of person you want to meet. I know a lot of people say bars and pubs, but it doesn't work for people that don't like to hang out in those places. That's a main reason I've never looked there, since it would be egoistical of me to find someone there, but not like hanging out with them later! So yeah, just pick some activities you like and you can try to find someone who also likes that activity, but you will be limited by the area that you pick to search in. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
coolheadal Posted July 2, 2018 Share Posted July 2, 2018 I can't get a date! Teach me please! Are you DR of what? Come on now it's in your DNA trait. We men all have the ability to ask the girl, lady or woman out! You have mention here you do Tinder a lot. So now you want a relationship with a woman. You can't tell me you don't know how to get a date. That's very easy today unless you and the women in question don't get a lone. A date just ask them out if they say no, just accept and go to the next. Keep going until you strike it rich! When things don't succeed, try, try try again! Link to post Share on other sites
gone_girl Posted July 2, 2018 Share Posted July 2, 2018 I'll date you! You're fun Take me out I'd like a honey bun 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author DrReplyInRhymes Posted July 3, 2018 Author Share Posted July 3, 2018 (edited) I'll date you! You're fun Take me out I'd like a honey bun Ok, lets do it. I'm serious. Friday night 7:30pm, let me take you out to dinner. By the way - "But honestly, I prefer someone shy a thousand times. Smooth guys who have all the moves? Not interested." I am exactly opposite of what you're looking for. Edited July 3, 2018 by DrReplyInRhymes 1 Link to post Share on other sites
LightWave93 Posted July 11, 2018 Share Posted July 11, 2018 I appreciate all the insight and the many suggestions you've all gave, My desperation is not apparent, I promise, it's taking all I've got to behave, I've gone out and had fun with some friends from my past, We drank, we smoked, we visited some venues and had a blast. Normally I am torn up after a relationship when it was absolutely worth it, Being second place to another man? My heart no longer cared, I didn't hurt it, I'm not on the hunt to find my soulmate, I'm just looking for a good time, So I decided to ask all these people going out on dates and do it through rhymes! Seems as if my reputation precedes me around here where I frequent the most, People don't let go of the past, my rambunctious younger self I no longer host, I read about all kinds of dates people have and I often wonder, so I thought, Maybe I should ask those going on dates where they meet, however, not the answer I got! This is genuinely one of the best responses (and associated username) I have ever read on an internet forum. My hats off to you, sir! Link to post Share on other sites
GuitarGuy7 Posted July 20, 2018 Share Posted July 20, 2018 (edited) I can't get a date! Teach me please! Iv'e been reading this book Models by Mark Manson, it's a really good dating book, you should definitely look into it. Basically there are three different types of women in the world. There's the unreceptive girls, neutral girls, and receptive girls. Unreceptive women are those who arne't attracted to you or unavailable to you. Either they have automatically written you off because you're not their type, or they become unreceptive if you didn't make a move or got to know you. Either way, if a girl is unreceptive towards you, then the best thing you can do is move on. Then there are women who are neutral. These are the girls who arne't attracted to you, but they're not unattracted to you either. If you're a normal and average looking guy, the majority of women you meet will be in this category. Basically with neutral women, they havent decided whether or not they're attracted to you yet. So with these girls, the goal is to get them to like you, by talking to them. Finally, there are the receptive girls. These are girls who are attracted to you. The number of women who will be initially attracted to you is proportional to your looks and your status. The better looking you are and the more status you have, the higher percentage of women will be receptive towards you from the start. Assuming you're an average looking guy who's not rich nor particularly good looking, most women you meet will fall into either the unreceptive or neutral category. You want to turn a neutral girl into receptive. And you do this by being polarizing. You become polarizing by expressing your truth, by not being afraid of being vulnerable, by expressing interest in her. And when you do these things, you are forcing the girl to make a decision about you, and she will either become unreceptive or receptive. Edited July 20, 2018 by GuitarGuy7 Link to post Share on other sites
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