guy45 Posted July 4, 2018 Share Posted July 4, 2018 I seem to not be having any luck at all with OLD. In the past I would be able to get dates but not anymore, I'm not sure why, I still look the same, maybe because I got a few years older? I sent out so many messages with so little luck, so to me it seems that no matter how hard I try OLD just won't work for me. Women have flirted with me in real life at school but since I'm not in school at the moment I don't really know where to meet any other women or what clubs to join. Any advice on this? At this point I'm convinced OLD will not work for me, I sent way too many messages and got pretty much no results. Sometimes I feel like OLD mostly attracts the people who have expectations that are way too high, perhaps that's why it's not working? But anyways any advice would be great, I'm really lost. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted July 4, 2018 Share Posted July 4, 2018 I hated OLD. It was demoralizing. In the 3 months I was on there I got more rejections then I'd ever experienced IRL. When my short subscription to an expensive paid cite expired, I got off my computer & never looked back. OLD is a single tool. You need to do things in real life to expand your social circle & meet more people. Then you will have better luck. Link to post Share on other sites
Mysterio Posted July 5, 2018 Share Posted July 5, 2018 The one thing that On line Dating has that real life does not have is this. At least everybody is single supposedly. If you want to do it from time to time. Be my guest. A GF is going to come from you going out and indulging in social and recreational activities when you least expect it. Going on the hunt 90% of the time is not going to do it. I am 47. When I go out on the hunt for GF. It never results in my favour. Only when I don't care do I get attention. I really imploy you to just find peace in knowing that you are getting into things that you love/like. You may meet new friends and a GF may pop out for you. Going on the hunt is a mindless easter egg hunt for nothing. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BaronChairman Posted July 6, 2018 Share Posted July 6, 2018 I'm actually giving serious thought to starting a thread chronicling my own search for a girl. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Mysterio Posted July 7, 2018 Share Posted July 7, 2018 Go for it Barron 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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