MeadowFlower Posted July 9, 2018 Share Posted July 9, 2018 If a girl doesn't seem to be interested in a guy, (from the guys point of view), can that cause the guy to lose interest and stop trying? Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted July 9, 2018 Share Posted July 9, 2018 Of course. Nobody likes smacking their head against a brick wall or flogging a dead horse. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
somanymistakes Posted July 9, 2018 Share Posted July 9, 2018 It can. It doesn't always. Some people take it as a challenge. Some people sensibly give up and move on. People do lots of different things. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted July 9, 2018 Share Posted July 9, 2018 If a girl doesn't seem to be interested in a guy, (from the guys point of view), can that cause the guy to lose interest and stop trying? Seems a guy would quickly move into "stalker" territory if he didn't take the hint. That type of unwanted attention can be pretty unpleasant... Mr. Lucky Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted July 9, 2018 Share Posted July 9, 2018 Playing hard to get is a risky game. If you are interested in somebody make it clear to them. Nobody likes to be toyed with. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
thefooloftheyear Posted July 9, 2018 Share Posted July 9, 2018 I know that there are women out there that think if a guy isn't moving mountains to get to them, then they feel like he's not worthy...They even go to the extent of continuously turning him down, but leaving a door open, so that he can keep upping the ante... Like previous poster stated....Risky maneuver....It could easily blow up..Some won't play along.. TFY Link to post Share on other sites
Author MeadowFlower Posted July 9, 2018 Author Share Posted July 9, 2018 d0nnivain and TFY, the question wasn't about playing hard to get or playing games. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted July 9, 2018 Share Posted July 9, 2018 I would say yes unless they are clueless and can't tell when someone is not interested in them. Those are the worst. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted July 9, 2018 Share Posted July 9, 2018 d0nnivain and TFY, the question wasn't about playing hard to get or playing games. Is this hypothetical girl (let me guess, a friend, right?) indeed interested in the guy on some level? Or is your question about how clueless guys can be in reading disinterest? Mr. Lucky Link to post Share on other sites
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