Am I an idiot?

[XxXhelazz]

Well, three weeks ago I was hanging out with some friends. When we were saying goodbye to each other, a friend of mine who is female, whispered to my ear that I was very cute. Well, I, anwsered with a "thanks you" and a smile, but didn't care too much, since she smoked a blunt before. Well, last week we hanged out and I connected pretty well with her while talking about some existencialist crap (we where drunken and smoked some blunts) Then again, when we were saying goodbye she hugged me and told me that I was a beautiful person and that I was really cute. I, again, didn't really care about it. Well, like three days ago, her, another friend and I, were hanging in the beach. A friend of mine asked me if I did want to have a fling, and my friend, the girl, asked that question before I could even anwser: "I don't think he wants it" (she said in a sarcastic way). And well, that's true, for now, I preffer to stsy single. But the question is:

 

Did I act like an idiot?

[preraph]

A fling means you are still single. A fling is just something casual and not intended to last.

[d0nnivain]

I'm incredibly anti drug, so . . . . . you smoke & I think that is idiotic behavior

 

Your Q was more about seeking an objective view of your interaction with this one girl. It all depends. What do you want from her? If you want to date her you need to step up & do something -- tell her she's cute too; kiss her; ask her on a date. If you have no interest, you need to let her down gently.

 

Right now you have this poor girl in limbo & she doesn't know if you like her or not. So figure that out. If you continue to toy with her, you're not an idiot but you are fast & dangerously approaching user

[Mrin]

Google fling

[Mr. Lucky]

I'm incredibly anti drug, so . . . . . you smoke & I think that is idiotic behavior

 

I had some incredibly insightful conversations back in the day when I smoked a little. Or so I'm told, could never remember the next day what had been said ...

 

Mr. Lucky